I have a crush on friend of mine of 3 years, who is married to a another friend of mine; she is also the sister of my ex-girlfriend. It didn't start off this way it just happened,she is sweet, loving, and friendly. Her body language sometimes suggest she might be feeling me too; I have studied body language and even though someone is committed they're expressions give away how they feel, even without them knowing. Does she feel like I do or is she just friendly? My real question is how can I confront hear about the way I feel without all hell breaking loose and still be friends? I don't want to lose her friendship and have her feel uncomfortable, but it's hard not to let someone know how you feel.
2006-12-20 00:06:32 · 5 answers · asked by Mr.?'s & Answers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could all be in your head. Instead of risking a big fallout, I suggest that you wait for her to give you a clearer sign. An occasion will present itself, I am sure. If she takes the next step, then it means she'll go for it. However, I strongly suggest that you just walk away and socialize with your friends as little as possible, because the husband is your friend, too and you should respect his feelings and keep some respect for yourself.
2006-12-20 00:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep you mouth shut. do not destroy anything in their relationship..by blurting out your problems with lust and hormones... get a grip.
She is married,. admire from afar.. you are trying to get close. back off... I don't care if she encourages you or flirts, she is not available and you are playing a dangerous game.
What is more important to you a good friend and relationship or having a friend cheat on their husband with you.. You will be affecting many lives here, not just hers and yours. You had better stop barking up this tree and go and find someone who is available.
Where are your morals and principles that your parents taught you,. Give your head a shake.
Find your own girl.....
2006-12-20 00:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know very well what the answer to that question is.
Most likely you will end up making a fool of yourself.
Have fun
2006-12-20 00:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that's one tough place to be in, bro..
tho i've been thru liking someone who's already attached, i guess i'd never be able to feel wat u're feelin like now..but this is wat i think k..
i know it's DAMN TOUGH to block ur feelins.. it jus feels wrong to put ur feelings in a cage n let it die.. but i've learnt is that maybe we ain't supposed to act on our feelings only.. maybe that's wat life's about.. maybe life's about doin wat's right, not wat we feel.. cuz our feelings can be wrong..
if u care about her, i guess u outta let her go, bro..no matter whatever she thinks of u..cuz u i think u know the implications for her too... im not in anyway fit to advise u on ur own life, but i guess u may not wanna ruin a marriage.. it ain't right, i think..
well, i hope u do wat u think is right, not wat u feel.. all i can do is suggest..u make the call..
2006-12-20 01:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋