SO, im tottally into this gurl where i work,but shes like 27, im nearly 22...ne ways, i acted off for a while around her n i ended up sending her some random messege that was meant for one f my friends...but it was about her, and she got it was confused etc..ended up askin me wat it was about, i told her i liked her etc...ne ways, she said that she could never get involved even if she wanted to due to working with me, and havin a bf etc and age difference..fair enough! its now like 5 months later, iv tried avoiding her, iv tried hanging with other girls, iv tried not bein her friend, but its impossible. we get on real good! nothings changed, i even stop myself from thinking about it because its like insane, on my mind all the time, when i go to bed when i wake up, at work, eveything.really wish i didnt feel like it, theres nothing i can do, and i hate the idea of becoming some little annoyance to her becuase of it all.wished and prayed she would feel something but nah. need help! blah.
2006-12-20 00:00:33 · 10 answers · asked by JAYE . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dedicate yourself to learning how to write. That ought to keep you busy for a year or two.
2006-12-20 00:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by redhotsillypepper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no, poor you, thats a bugger. There's nothing worse than unrequited love. And there's no easy answer to this one either. If there was any chance with this girl it really would have happened by now but I know that's not going to stop you thinking about it all the time.
The only thing thats going to do that is someone new. Try goin out with your mates on the pull or do a bit of internet dating (try an keep it clean tho!). Even if its just a fling, a bit of time with someone else might remind you that there's millions of other people out there that might appreciate your love and attention more!
Good luck hun. xx
2006-12-20 00:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Juniper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your drawback is that she's a co-worker and that's why liking a co-worker is never a good idea. If you can't handle it by trying to forget her because of seeing her at work, then your only way to stop being like this is to change your place of work. Sorry.
2006-12-20 00:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jaye !!
Well, your situation is typically very similar to me,
I also like a girl where I work,, I am also 22, & she is around 27 !
Difference is I have not told her yet that I like her ! & that really hurts me !
Sorry ! I was supposed to answer ur question, but well I have the same question !
Mail me if you think it would be nice to share expreinces.. : necessitar@yahoo.co.in
Really wanted to meet someone in similar situtaion to mine ! :(
2006-12-20 00:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by Dhruv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unlucky. if you were more mature than you seem, you may be able to win her heart. But from your attitude, spelling and language I gather you are young for your years, perhaps a late developer. She probably sees you as a little brother. Just get a new job.
2006-12-20 00:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by Estee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's made it clear that she only wants friendship with you so you shoul respect that. Join some clubs or something to get you involved with other people and to take your mind off her.
2006-12-20 00:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling her that u still have feelings and that maybe u guys shouldnt be around each other until u work through ur feelings andd move on
2006-12-20 00:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by flatteredwu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on
2006-12-20 00:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just wants friendship///she's tryin to lead you on...dont..dont ever take it the wrong way...it would end up..you getting hurt....
2006-12-20 04:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ hOnEy ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 months? she got u good hey!!!!!!!!! Just move on man, she made it clear!!!!!!!
2006-12-20 00:06:25 · answer #10 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋