Quick way to learn to defend yourself and attack another person?

Question

Hi,

I would like to know is there a quick way to learn martial arts, karate or any other way to get stronger in a short period of time?

I would like to do this because I dont like an induvidual at my school and would just like to punch him or beat him up.

But at the moment he is very strong, and I am very weak.

Is there any way to get stronger than him? so I can have a go at him?

Thanks

That person has done things to me like ripping my coursework up stealing my bag, taking things from my pocket, puncturing my cycle tire, and when you talk to him he starts making fun up and doesnt really listen. When you say something he will hold it against you!

And when he is with his friend he is worse! He starts saying stuff about my family and that stuff.

When I was his mate he told me stuff like he smokes and does skunk (a type of drug) but he told me not to tell his parents.

His brothers even lock teachers in class rooms!

Thats why I want to have a go at him!

Answer 1

There are no "quick" paths.
Anyone that tries to sell you an "accelerated program" is selling a lie.
Also, your motive is not pure. You should not attack people, that is disrespectful and dishonorable.

Physical violence is not the answer. What if accomplished martial artists thought it was acceptable to punch people because they "don't like them".
It sound to me like you have anger or control issues. Possibly even self-confidence issues.
Find another way to solve your problem because violence will just make it worse.

Answer 2

Your first martial arts lesson - use an unconventional tactic to defeat someone you can't beat with strength. Why engage when you are outgunned when you can undermine the enemy other ways.

He sounds like a wanker. However, violence against him will cause you more trouble. He can't defeat you with words and simple mean gestures. Tattling will do little good for you. You need a way to nullify the advantage he gets from his tactics.

Ask yourself: "What does this guy get from [some action he has done]?" and then ask: "how does he get [whatever he gets]?"

If he intimidates you, it is because he needs to establish dominance. If the quickest and best way out of the situation is to let him think he has won, go ahead and let him think it. If you know in your heart that you are acting in that way to prevent worse violence, you are the real victor.

It will take a lot of time and work to get stronger, but you can win the real fight if you approach it from a different viewpoint. It is best to approach these people by assuming force will not work.

Use your noggin.

Good luck out there!

Answer 3

I know what you mean brotha I've had this same problem only this kid was a tank using martial arts to hurt people is not what were about though what you need to do is dodge as much as you can while making fast hits if that doesn't work take him to the ground and use elbows hammer fists and punches make sure your weight is on top of him when you mount or an even better way is when your on top have your knees on his arms and keep pressure there then your free to do what you want

or tell his secrets to his parents and tell the principle that he's bothering you

Answer 4

First off dude learn to be a man a real man. If at one point you become bigger and stronger and you go out just beating people up then you become the Bully and people hate you. Here is the real deal. You can't learn a Martial Art in a Matter of minutes. There is no way. It takes years of practice just to be good. Second walk into a Karate/taekwondo/Judo or any other martial Arts school and tell them you want to learn so you can beat someone up and they would refuse to train you. But after reading your question I think you got serious Issues and need to have a mental eval. You state you want to punch the guy and beat him up just because you don't like him. There is no mention of him ever doing anything to you or of him ever hitting you. So why beat up someone just because you don't like them. I am sure there are people out that don't like you and they are not lining up to take Karate to kick your Butt.

Answer 5

1st lesson in real martial arts dont listen to what most ppl say here it will definitely get you hurt.
theres no quick easy way to learn anything.and instead of trying to find the quick and easy way by posting a question like this here,use your brain and think about it a bit more.everyone has a weakness and a strength.just make sure you dont lower yourself to his level,thats more of a sign of strength than confronting him physicaly
and getting your head punched in. and being a dog and using the police to solve your problem which no doubt you helped create would make you lower than him.take responsibility for your own actions.

Answer 6

Learn to FEEL GOOD about BEING GOOD. What you feel inside you, that wicked little voice telling you to do wicked little things, isn´t the "real you", but the real sin in your limbs, the heirloom of the unruly Adam. Stop even wishing to be bad - every thought, every idea, every emotion carves a path into your brain. It´s like learning vocabulary - "Repetition is the mother of a good memory". If you repeate good thoughts and practise good actions and ARE PROUD TO BE GOOD - then it will form your character and you will be happy and better every time. Tell this your friend - if he wishes to stay bad, maybe he´s bad association for you?? Find people who also practise doing good ... Who´s the best man who ever lived? Is it Jesus Christ? What did he do, then? Feed thousands... heal the malad... ok, but most of the time, he taught about God´s kingdom. Find those who follow him today! Those who don´t go to war, but offer free bible-courses to teach people about God - like Jesus has told them: (Matthew 28:19-20) Go therefore and make disciples of people of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the holy spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all the things I have commanded YOU. And, look! I am with YOU all the days until the conclusion of the system of things.”

Answer 7

You're obviously missing the point of Martial Arts. You can walk up to any Martial Artist and ask him or her why they chose to study their particular form of fighting and their answer 99% of the time will be "So I don't have to use it." Martial Arts trains you in discipline as well as training the body. If you're looking to get stronger to beat up someone just because you don't like them, any of the Martial Arts are not the way you should go.

Answer 8

Grandfather was decorated for bravery twice during WWI

His rules : Your legs are your best friends when in trouble
Keep your head down and out of trouble
NEVER start a fight but be sure to finish it

Its not about strength or speed. There is ALWAYS going to be somone stronger and bigger;

Answer 9

martial arts is not to be used like that
martial arts is mind body and soul as one
not to beat up a bully

I will not give you any suggestions cuz you gonna get your butt
bent cuz your letting you ego take over you mind and body
and you juz want to look macho

Your probably doing this in front of ya girl. Right?

I am a girl and i think it is stupid when boys fight like dogs juz to prove they are HOT its stupid in-mature lame and dangerous

Answer 10

Yep use your head, stay away from him, out think him. Try always to be with some of your freinds There is strength in numbers.