we love each other since 6 years but my parents not agreeing will we be able to get married?

Question

my birth date is 13/12/1985 & his is 6/3/1982

can any one help me genuinely instead of saying ke love is this & love is that I need a genuine help Coz im nt able 2 tell my parents how i feel & on the otherside i cant live without him.Plz is there any site where i can get help or can u all help me plz yes! he is from a diffrent caste But it doesnt matter to me.does any body know any astrologer no! im noy superstitious it jus ke ...But i want it on the net coz im nt able 2 go out anywhere....i cnt explain but plz help me plz

by d way THANXS TO ALL OF U ALL FOR ANSWERING MY QUESTION u'VE GIVIN ME MORE STRENGTH TO FACE MY PARENTS THANXS!!!BUDDIES!

Answer 1

i don't know where in the world you live but in the united states, every state allows a 21 year old and a 24 year old to marry without the permission of their parents.

Answer 2

First n foremost plz do not misunderstand what i am going to tell u. Firstly he is younger than u. A husband should always be older to his wife atleast by 5 yrs. because once a person is married the wife bears children, which makes her weak physically. Later on she starts looking older than the husband or as old as he is. And if the wife is older in age than the husband she obviously ages faster. Then in later years the husband may start straying ( which is not his fault ). Because a male always likes a goodlooking or beautiful looking wife/spouse. The initial love starts dampening after a couple of yrs. of marriage. And the trouble starts. Its all good until u get married. then after a couple of yrs later the physical attraction starts reducing and so on an so forth. That's the fact of life. I am talking from experience. I have seen 90% of love marriages fail later on than arranged marriages. So plz think a million times before jumping into the ring. Life is not a play thing as the youth of today think. One mistake and that's it. The whole life is ruined. May God give u the strength to make the right decision. God Bless u.

Answer 3

Acc 2 ur sunsign:-
The Sagittarius woman and the Piscean man must expect a certain amount of tension from the occasional clashing of their divergent personalities. His tendency towards self-pity, and her tendency towards self-wilfulness, obviously will only deepen the problems. Jealousy and possessiveness will not be the major issue of discontent as neither of them is really possessive by nature, and both them enjoy their freedom too much to deny it to the other. The Sagittarius woman despises any trace of the Neptunian secrecy, double talk or deception of the Piscean man. While the Piscean man is deeply disturbed by the brutal honesty of the Sagittarius woman that wounds more than it heals. There are many ties of tenderness and bonds of sympathy between the planets Jupiter and Neptune, which bind the Sagittarius woman and Piscean male closer than they realise. So if they love enough, they can come to an amicable solution and iron their differences. She should be a little more tactful, thoughtful and gentle, without having to let go of her individuality and independence, so characteristic of the element of fire in her sign. He must be a little more open, direct and expressive, without sacrificing the spiritual privacy and calmness of the water element in his nature.
But don't worry astrology is not always correct u haven't given enough information so I can make kundlis of u both. Talk 2 ur parents freely. U hve 2 do it someday or other. If u think he is the right person 4 u then prove it in front of ur parents.

Answer 4

ii wanted desperately to answer your question.I LOVED the same man since I was 19 and 5 of his kids ago.I'm now 31years old and just came to the heart breaking conclusion that he is not the man for me,hurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrtful, unbelievable.How could I love someone and have five kids with him and then realise he was not the man for me.My point.........Baby there is no need to rush when we move fast as young ladies love has away of truly truly blinding us. We only see what we want to see or we see only what our heart lets us.If it's love whats wrong with waiting?He's not going anywhere and from the sound of it you'll be around for a long time too. Live. Get to known him more and even more and then some more.PLEASE don't forget as we get older we change,weather we want to or not. Make sure this man will change and grow with with you and on the same view's and values.I know it seems like if you cant have him you Will just die.I've felt that desperate helpless feeling before.and no one seems to understand your love for each other............But experience is the best teacher and not all of us have to learn the hard way.All I'm saying is wait together, Time makes it possible for the impossible but if you work against her she may have a deadly bite.

Answer 5

Those of you who think there is no other place other than United States, you should look the world map, again.

This person sounds like she is from India and things work a little differently. Obviously whe can go against her Parents and marry the person of her choice, but that will mean cutting off relationship with her Parents, which she doesn't want to do."

To answer your question, I think you should get support of some senior members of your family to support you and have them convinve your parents. And from the birth dates you have mentioned, I'm assuming that you are hoping an astrologer might answer your question. That is highly unlikely here. For that you will have to maybe goto an online astologer or meet him in person. All the best.

Answer 6

Is he of the same religion? Maybe that is why your parents are objecting? You have not specified the same.

However I would agree if you are of the same religion get support from your senior family members uncles or aunts etc.

If you are not of the same religion, let me remind you forget religous issue, even sect issues are very difficult to handle. You may belong to the same religion but different sects your cultures may be slightly different, but this is sufficient to cause enough clashes even if you are ready to compromise.

If you dont want any of the hassles above. Inform your parents about your decision, say that you respect their wishes and understand that they are concerned about you, but that you are sure you will be happy with your choice only in the long term. There is no guarantee that the person they choose may turn out to be equally bad, what would be preferrable? A known enemy or an unknown one? Take a decision say we will wait for about .....months and then get married with or without your blessings!

Personal advice through experience, parents are always right (their intution for their children never goes wrong)

Answer 7

This totally depends upon both of you'll. If you love and trust each other then you have to convince your parents that the difference in age does not matter. I do agree that parental consent and guidance is necessary, but if they are not consenting just because of their stubborness or ego, then you should have the courage to marry without their consent. Because if yours is a true love; then if you marry someone else of their choice under pressure, then you will be ruining three lives, one yours, because you will never be happy other your boy friends's,and third the life of the man you are forced to marry, because you will never be able to love him. Parents may get cross initially but will understand and forgive if they find you are leading ahappy married life

Answer 8

You can marry at 21 and 24 yrs old. And it would be good to have a serious talk with your parents. Listen to them first why they don't want that person for you. And then think. If you still feel the same then explain to them why. And ask them to accept that.

Everything can be talked over just as long as people listen to one another. Also, think hard, do not rush things.

Answer 9

my problems is similar like yours i don't know how i resolve this but may be firstly i talk to my father( my mom is no more so i can't ask her) i can't hurt my dad also so what he will say if he agree it's good then either i will run from my house or i will never going to married to anyone but i think he will agree because if u love someone u get him/her best of luck for Ur life live happy stay happy. love never die love can change everything.

Answer 10

Ur parents are very important but if ur really really in love then don't let them stand in ur way. Sometimes at first it may seem like they won't like him but eventually they will start to get used to it. U just have to make sure that ur really in love because u don't want to marry him and have it not be worth it plus ur parents will say i told u so lol