I am 15 years old, and llately i have been shopping at vicoria's secret for lacey panties and bras, buying lower cut shirts, i am more flirty now, i signed up for yoga class to enhance my flexibility lol, ALOT more into my fitness, talking a bit more dirrty alot more about sex, making sure my pubes are bare and everything, yes i am a virgin no i do not have a boyfriend. I dont know why I am suddenly acting this way, is this a sign that i will be like a slut or whatever?? it happened all too suddenly, and yea i got my period like 3 1/2 years ago so no i doubt its puberty.
2006-12-19 15:28:33 · 20 answers · asked by Here i am once again 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOO i am not turning lesbian or BI, i am straight no doubt about it. the low cut shirts, i find more flattering i guess, not like super low, just low to show that there is something there
2006-12-20 01:34:20 · update #1
Yes it sounds like you are. Too bad you're not as interested in your education as you are your underpants.
2006-12-19 15:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, that does not make you a slut, but it does make you vulnerable to people refering to you as such is that the type of attention you want? You really need to think long and hard about that.
There is nothing wrong with how you keep your private parts or what you wear to cover them ( as long as you are the only one that is seeing them). This is actually practiced by a lot of females young and old alike, we do this to feel good about ourselves.
At your age however if you are doing it to impress the oppisite sex then, YA ,that does make you a slut, if you are showing it off to more that one member of the oppisite sex YA, your a slut- be careful how you present yourself names tend to stick with us for the endurance of our lives.
Fitness is good and it's great that you are making this a part of your daily routine at such a young age - belive me your body will thank you for it later
As far as the sexual talking -hey that never hurt nobody-as long as it does not get out of hand, and information is the key so why not get as mush of it as poosible- as a matter of fact i belive that peoples experiences teach us way better that text book stories.
Oh yeah the clothes- well that is on the outside and people do see you in them - the thing to remember about that is this -What message are you sending to your audince? or what impression are you portraing to them - remember even if they don't say it they will think it and say it behind your back.
Whatever you do just remember this appearances are everything - hmmmm, i'm not sure i should tell you this at 15, but hey what the hell, Everyone knows or should know that men (boys) like a woman ( girl) on the street and a whore (slut) in the bed.
Keep your head on girl you'll be fine.
2006-12-19 23:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The low cut shirts will definatly give that impression at your age. Talking alot about sex and being suggestive makes you a tease.
i understand at 15 your hormones are raging and no doubt becoming curious about your sexuality. All I can really say is be picky about who you sleep with and why you sleep with them. Dont do it if you dont trust him. And dont do it just for him. It is your body, you are the boss of it so you have the right to say no/.
But most importantly be educated before you do anything. There are far too many teen pregnancies. Too mant STD's going around. Chances are your parents didnt tell you what you need to know and judging by the sex ed classes I got in school, they did not do their job either. So do some research on how to keep yourself safe and what to expect if you are not. Know your contraceptive options.
Also know that there is no excuse for a guy to not have a condom on. It fits him. It can fit on an elephant and i KNOW he is in no comparison to an elephant. He will not die or get sick or anything. Blue balls will not hurt him. It just means he has to do it himself when he gets home. lol
Be safe. Have fun. Love your body.
2006-12-19 23:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by .. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you're 15. You're just going a little overboard in preparation.. LOL
You are allowed to feel sexy even if you are a virgin. It's new to you, it's unknown territory, of course you're thinking about it a lot. Just keep your head on straight and be smart about it, that's all. Guys (and girls) get the wrong idea very fast and you can get a reputation without doing a thing. Be careful!
You're not a slut unless you act upon it... repeatedly.. in my opinion.. :)
2006-12-19 23:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by asleep 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to be at least a little promiscuous to be an actual slut. Maybe you're just becoming more feminine and getting interested in "womanly" things. But no, it doesn't make you a slut at all. When you start having sex just to have sex, then we'll talk.
2006-12-19 23:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but don't think of it as a bad thing. All it means that is you are getting in touch with your sexuality and you are wanting to be very good at giving and getting pleasure. Keep it up and work it hard sweetie. Perhaps I could help you come out of the closet.
2006-12-20 04:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by divingonthemuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that al girls go thur this faze in their lives where they are maturing into a woman.. now here the key thing ur a virgin so KEEP IT!!! i dont think that u are a slut but i think that if u are startin to wanna have sex adn do it with alot of guys then u are.. but i wouldnt freak out jsut yet its normal just taking it eassy and get GOD IN UR LIFE!!!
2006-12-19 23:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my eyes you aint a slut or becoming a slut unless you are get smashed by alot dudes you are just doin what girls do and hey thats not a problem.
2006-12-19 23:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Styliztik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look young one before you go and have a baby at 16 keep your junk in your trunk and worry about school more than getting your groove on with some kid whos to young to be a dad cause you are WAY to young to be a mom
2006-12-19 23:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uh, no.
Technically you'll only be a slut if you start sleeping with a lot of guys.
2006-12-19 23:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by The Real Deal. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋