i'm done i thank every one who tried to help me especially dog snezze the other rob c.but i have lost the will to live.my wife soon to be ex is never going to reconsile and save our family.new years eve i'm ending this suffering pray for my family and my two children they don't deserve this but i can't go on.i doubt there is a god but if there is he forsaked me.but pray that he will forgive me and let me rest in peace.because i've been threw hell most of my life.thanks again for trying but i didn't get my xmas miracle and i'm misererable as ever it's been a year and i can't pretend anymore that things will turn around or get better.please forgive me and send me your prayers.rob c
2006-12-18 13:50:34 · 20 answers · asked by Rob C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i've never been happy in my life and just when i thought i would be she told me she didn't love me anymore.i'm done i'm prepared to die i will ask her again on nys eve and if not i'm dead.
2006-12-20 13:59:04 · update #1
Oh my goodness, listen to me don't do that you need to pray to God he has not forsakes you. HE LOVES YOU YOU ARE HAVING A BAD YEAR THINGS CAN CHANGE STOP FOCUSING ON THE BAD LOOK AT AL THE GOOD IN YOUR LIFE. YOU HAVE 2 CHILDREN WHO NEED YOU, THOSE TWO ARE THE BEST GIFTS YOU COULD HAVE EVER GOTTEN. PLEASE DON'T DO THIS YOU NEED TO GO GET SOME HELP, SITUATIONS LIKE THIS CAN BE WORKED THROUGH. TELL ME WHAT WAS YOUR CHRISTMAS MIRACLE. God DOES EVERYTHING FOR A REASON. YOU NAY THINK THAT YOU DON'T DESERVE TO LIVE BUT THINK THERE IS SO MUCH TO LIVE FOR YOUR KIDS, HE NEW YEAR. YOUR WIFE AND YOU MAY NOT HAVE BEEN MEANT TO BE THERE IS PLAN TY MORE PEOPLE OUT THERE FOR YOU.!!! I WILL PRAY FOR YOU BUT PLEASE KNOW THAT GOD DOES EVERYTHING FOR A REASON. ALOT OF BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO GOOD PEOPLE. EVERYTHING WILL WORK ITSELF OUT!!!!! I WILL PRAY FOR YOU TONIGHT AND READ TO SEE IF THERE IS A VERSE THAT I CAN SHOW YOU TO PROVE THAT LIFE IS A PRECIOUS GIFT!!! GOD BLESS
2006-12-18 14:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by *PEACE BEGINS WITH A SMILE* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If what you're saying is true, then you really need to rethink your deision. My sister took her own life last April. It is a selfish and cowardly act. Others will pay for your decision for the rest of their lives. Do you really want to be responsible for that? You just have to go on somehow. This time WILL pass. You can live without your ex! The pain WILL diminish. And you WILL go on and be happy again. It just takes time. But if you take your life, it's over...forever. You won't see your grandkids, you'll cause a lot of guilt and leave many unanswered questions, and some people will even feel anger toward you.
So pick yourself up, go outside and get some fresh air, look at God's beautiful creation out there and thank him for it. And say, God I don't know how I'm going to get through this time in my life, but I'm letting you have control.
Don't blame God for your wife's decision. God hates divorce, but people do it everyday. You can do it too. It WILL get better in time if you give it a chance. A year from now you will look back and be so glad that you chose to live. Give yourself that opportunity.
I encourage you to choose life. Do the right thing and live!!!
2006-12-18 22:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are times in a persons life when they think that they cant go on any longer, I've been their. But life always gets better. I saw a documentary on suicide, and people that tried it but did not suceed were glad that they had not, one guy survived a jump off a bridge and he said on the way down he thought what am I doing, I dont want to die. He was so happy that he survived. And think of how your kids will feel without you. Your their DADDY to them you are a hero, to them you can do no wrong. Do you really know how much they LOVE you. With all their hearts, your the only daddy they have, and will ever have. If your wife dont want to be with you, just think of how much your kids do. the pain that you are feeling now will subside, you just have to give it some time. Did you know you are the only one like you their never has nor never will be anyone like you ever! doesnt that make you feel special. You know you are someone special to JESUS, and your kids. When you feel you cant handle it think of your kids, you will not be around when they need you. I dont know how old they are, but you will miss out on so much. And think of how hurt your family will be. They will be hurting more than you are right now. Please dont do this.
2006-12-18 22:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by tanat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let Satan continue to run your life and get to you. He want's your soul and you are about to give it to him. Don't let him have it. If you can't work things out with your wife, you WILL eventually get over it. It just takes time. Your kids definately do not deserve this. They should count enough in your life to live for them. Devote your life to them and God. You'll be the best parent ever. Look around, sometimes we can't recognize a miracle at first. Just look and you may see one. You don't always get everything you pray for. God is your father. Like you are your childrens father, sometimes I am sure you have told them "no". Not now. Because you know better and know that no good will come of it. And tell them to wait untill later. Something will come along. Kinda the same thing. I have just prayed for you and hopefully everyone else does and you will feel God's presence. God bless you.
2006-12-18 22:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Shari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does everything depend on what your ex-wife does. You are a person. You said that you doubt there is a God. This means that you dont know for sure that He doesn't exist. God does exist. He has promised us that when we ask for Him, He will be there. Please don't do anything that you can't undo. I have no answers for you. It makes me sick to think that someone would end their life just to end their suffering. When I was 12, my neighbour committed suicide and took my mom with him. I am 32 now, and I don't really remember my mom. I ache inside for her every once in a while. I think that suicide is very selfish. Your children need you. You have absolutely no idea what effect this will have on them. They will go through so much emotions. You have to think of them before yourself. Be there for them and be the best damn dad there ever was. Please don't do this. i agree wholeheartedly with the person above me. Even if the only reason you have to live is your kids, choose to live for them.
2006-12-18 22:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by cclleeoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiance blew his head off in front of me over 20 years ago, and I've had the joy of seeing that every single day since. And the questions...why? How could he? How did I fail him? What could I have done to save him?
The guilt has consumed me, and nearly ruined my life. The anger, the hurt. The stigma of suicide.
Is THAT the legacy you want to leave for your kids. Get off your computer and call a suicide hotline. I'm going to try to find you a link, and I'll post it. I read your other questions, and I think you're serious. So you're laying this on everyone here to save you. I know you're hurting, but don't be so selfish. I'll be right back with a number.
***Call one of the numbers below, talk to someone who can help. NO ONE in the yahoo! r+s forum is qualified to do anything for you. It's up to you to help yourself. Good luck. You can do it if you try. I can't save you, it's all up to you.
2006-12-18 22:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by iamnoone 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you this Rob C. because I have been in the same position that you are in. Only I have 5 children. You are feeling terrible about your circumstances. It is that way in the beginning. Psalms 23 was written just for situations like this. I too have been through a lot in my life. Just because you are not having things your way does not mean that God's plan is not to bless you.
There is one thing that I have learned. It is that just before God is going to pour out a blessing on your life, you will go through a lot. But you are not going to allow you to experience more than you can bear. I have dealt with adultery in my marriage, bigamy, low self esteem, depression, but God healed with me and is continuing to give me strength.
Cast your cares on Jesus. He can provide all that you need.
Rob C. Find some one who you can confide in face to face. A positive person, one who can lead you to answers from the Word of God. I will pray for you. God Bless you and DO NOT GIVE UP!
2006-12-18 23:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by T Tom T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is a better life ahead of you if you just hang in there. You will look back and say thank you God for giving me a second chance. I know it is tough. I went through the same thing and tried everything. It took me almost 2 years to come to myself. I thank God for giving me a second chance. Just take it one day at a time.
2006-12-18 22:00:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please consider your kids. Will life really be better for them, if they have to live the rest of it without your love in their life. You will never know what may happen in the future, often times life turns around. Give it a chance, if for no other reason, to be with your kids, who can bring more joy than anything else life can offer.
2006-12-18 21:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie_baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude!!
It's NOT that serious. Beleive me, my life sucks probably worse than yours or just as bad, but this is not the answer. Don't sit by waiting on a miracle, pray and just keep trying. If something ain't working then it ain't working, but you don't just give up on life man. You can't do that. Please keep trying and keep hope alive. There is a God above. That much I do know. You are here for a reason.
2006-12-18 21:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋