If somebody has any stds and they were to sleep with you, would they disclose it or do you have to always ask. And how do you go about asking, esp if they are making out with you.
2006-12-17 17:59:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
If the person is truthful they would tell you they have an STD but this is the real world so no not everyone will tell you. Asking is just a matter of if you are going to sexual in any way with someone you need to ask. Do not think that asking is always going to get you a truthful answer though because the person you are with could be embarassed and say they are clean when they aren't or it could be a spiteful person who will lie.
2006-12-17 18:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's actually a tricky subject. This is a good reason for always using a condom, but even they do not abolish risk. The safest way is to talk first, but let's face it . . . That's really not how it happens.
It would be the right thing to disclose it, but if a person knows, and doesn't inform you right away, chances are that they'd lie about it even if asked. This is where risk factor comes into play, and believe me, having unprotected sex with someone without knowing for sure can really eat at you.
All in all, it depends on the person, and often times they don't even know! Think about it, if everyone knew themselves and were decent honest people, STD's would simply not be spread. Best bet, use a condom, and if you're concerned, do talk about it, and if it's even a bigger issue, be in a relationship and get tested first.
2006-12-17 18:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by starofiniquity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're close enough to have sex with someone you should be close enough to discuss STD's. Keep in mind that there are some STD's that a condom cannot protect you from. Once a relationship gets to the point where sex is a possibility, it's best for both partners to be tested and allow access to the other party of the results. Make sense? Be cautious.
2006-12-19 07:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. study the numerous solutions for your question and anybody is performing like she did some thing incorrect.. in the start, you're the single which screwed up so asking some thing of her at this second.. will be extremely stupid on your section, insulting, and none of your organization. That communication should be kept for IF she comes to a decision your sorry in the back of is extremely well worth the attempt back.. THEN ask the question and do it good.. you're the single which threw her away.. For responsabilities sake and courtesy.. definite you also get examined.. do not enable it even ensue to you now to not because do not ask for what you at the on the spot are not prepared to do in change..
2016-11-30 22:01:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most infected persons will not tell you they have a STD. You need to ask, however, they can always lie to you. I highly recommend that you have each partner take STD tests at a doctor's office prior to engaging in sexually activity. If your partner is clean and cares about you, your partner will not mind taking the test.That is the only way to be safe (besides abstinence, of course).
2006-12-17 19:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People, in general, are too embarrassed to discuss or give up information like this. Make sure you always use a condom no matter what. People don't always tell the truth either. Try bring up this subject in a nonthreatening way and before you are getting it on. It will make "go time" much more enjoyable for you both.
2006-12-17 18:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont expect truth from a person who's having a std.
Always take precautions and go for condom.
2006-12-17 19:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by drjb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋