So I just had sex about 30 minutes ago with this gal when about 30 minutes into the sex I reliazed the condom tore. I've had sex before with a few girls, this one before and I have always used a condom. I used one tonight as well but the sensation during the sex felt different, warmer if you will. When I felt this I checked the condom tore.
Should I be freaking out?
I didn't ejaculate / *** .... so you know? I'm sure the pre-*** stuff did make an appearance, I mean, Doesnt it always?
So please, help? Advice? Anything.
Immediatedly after we discovered this we stopped the sex and she went into the bathroom to clean up. _
Also, since this time there was actual penis to vagina contact, should i get tested? I know this girl and she has only had 2 partners before, with me being one.
Also, a reason why i think i should freak out is cause i have a friend who had sex with his girlfriend numerous times without a condom and nothing happened. He of course too didnt "***" inside her.
2006-12-17 00:22:17 · 12 answers · asked by Legionnaire 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Now with me in tonights event, i didnt "***" at all.
but you know?!?!?!!?
2006-12-17 00:22:48 · update #1
you should chop the silly thing off
2006-12-17 00:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but if you're worried about her being pregnant, the morning after pill is available over the counter in the pharmacy now. And about the STD thing, chances are you don't have anything. Men have a 1/4 chance of getting an STD when having sex with an infected person. And she's only been with 2 people including you, she probobly doesn't have anything. Wait a little while and get tested, some things can take up to 6 months to show though.
2006-12-17 01:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having sex with multiple partners, I agree with Wild Man. Otherwise, it's possible to have prophylactic antibiotics to limit your risk for STD's, but you probably should wait a week or so for the tests to be more accurate. The HIV test, of course, is only a baseline, as even with a huge viral load it can take months for that test to turn positive. Remember, the only safe sex is when you're alone.
If you're worried about pregnancy, HCG isn't produced until after implantation, and the test will not be very accurate for 2-4 weeks. I bet she'll let you know.
2006-12-17 00:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's a little bit of information to keep in mind:
---testing won't show anything untiil 30 days after the act
---after two weeks----have your gal friend take a home pregnancy test. WHY? i, too, used a condom as a means of birth control while having sex with my wife. the condom broke before i ejaculated and we immediately ended the session. nine months later a 8 lb. 6 ounce bouncing baby boy arrived to make it child number 9. (two girls followed)
---main idea-------i'd be more fearful of pregnancy than infection.
Good luck!
2006-12-17 00:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting tested might not be a bad idea. Was she safe with the other guy she was with? Talk with your girlfriend. Ask her to get tested (for STDs and pregnancy), after all, there is a possibility that she could get pregnant just from your pre-ejaculate fluid.
Good that when you realized what happened you both stopped!!
Good luck
2006-12-17 00:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by barrych209 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting tested right away won't do any good, except to tell if she might have caught something from you. Even if you caught something it takes 2 weeks to 3 months for STDs to show up on a test. The best thing to do is to get yourself tested and get her tested. That way if you both come up clean, you'll have nothing to worry about. (unless somebody's sleeping around)
2006-12-17 02:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is often plausible to be pregnant. start administration could make it les in all probability, even nonetheless it may no longer negate the possibility.between the terrific issues in case you would be wanting intercourse and you do no longer want a newborn. then you certainly would desire to apply 2 or extra varieties of start administration. A diaphragm with spermicide and a condom provides you with yet another layer or 2 of secure practices. suitable now you will would desire to sweat it out for some weeks till you will locate out. it particularly is beneficial to call your wide-spread practitioner and notice what information he would supply you. or you are able to call the manufacture and locate out what they advise. suitable now the extra you recognize the extra useful judgements you additionally could make.
2016-10-15 02:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is natural for you to be freaked out but the gal's ovulation schedule is always a big factor whether or not she might get pregnant or not. check the calendar. She might not be ovulating the day your condom tore. If that's the case, you need not worry. However, if she is, please don't resort to abortion. :)
2006-12-17 00:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by dave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha Ha. Don`t worry Child support is only for 18 years. You play you pay!
2006-12-17 00:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-17 05:00:27 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋