how would you ask someone to get an hiv test?
we were together so long ago 8 yrs ago, and i know that we both have been with different people i think that we both need to get it done but where and how would you ask him to do it.
2006-12-15 15:16:55 · 9 answers · asked by jlw78418 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
where would we get this done at ?
2006-12-15 15:20:21 · update #1
Well.....
You wouldn't want someone to point a gun at your head right??
Isn't having sex with a loaded (penis) gun potentially deadly??
Well.... I would say this....
If you both want to have NO protection then go together and get tested. He knows you are safe and you know he is.
Be prepared to be supportive in case he isnt or you arent.
This can be very devastating information!!
Otherswise use condoms without fail until he pushes for condom free sex!
2006-12-15 15:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by ChillinForrealin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell that prson.8. years is quiet a while and to be on the safe side that both need to get tested to make sure that there isnt nothing that could damage either of you.2. and go together to show you really want him as well her to know you have nothing to hide from ach other in my opion?
2006-12-15 23:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say u are getting tested b/c u feel it would give u peace of mind and u would appreciate if he would do the same. Tell him u couldn't live with urself if u had it and didnt know and gave it to him and that you hope he cares enough about u to do the same. G/L
2006-12-15 23:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by XXXDirtyDirtyGirlXXX 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have this done at the Public Health Nurse for free. And it's best to just lovingly say you'd feel better knowing, since it's been weighing on your mind.
2006-12-15 23:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by littlechrismary 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should just say if you expect to have sex with me you have to get an HIV test like i'm going to do for you.
2006-12-15 23:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by roy40372 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suggest you both go have it done. Just get it done to put it to rest and be sure...
2006-12-15 23:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Vik 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey love,
all you do is tell them you want to know you are safe. though you love them you just cant risk something so threatening as hiv
2006-12-15 23:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by ~**Milanou**~ Z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer the straight ahead approach. Tell him no nookie until you see the lab results.... simple. The sooner you do it, the better.
2006-12-15 23:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Peachy® 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can get it for free it use to cost 500 dollars but now its free
2006-12-15 23:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by apple_bottom06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋