At my work, there's a guy who comes in all the time. I'm almost 20, he's in his younger 30s. He's very attractive. When he comes in, according to my coworkers, he'll casually look around, and if I'm not there, he'll just leave or not say anything. But, if I'm there, he looks at me, smiles, says hey and takes his time. He tries to get my attention, joining in my conversations, saying he thought I was talking to him. When we talk, he looks deeply into my eyes. He wanted to know about my thanksgiving (although I did ask him first). Recently he did some heavy lifting for us, because we weren't strong enough to do it.
Is it possible he's attracted to me? Sorry this is so long, a lot has happened! :) Thank you!
2006-12-01 23:47:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes he is !
2006-12-02 00:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by msk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sure does :)
few things to point out..
1) he comes looking for you
2) if your not there he leaves or doesnt talk, obviously he only has time to speak to you, why do you think that is?
3) him smiling/looking at you is another sign
4) hes making the effort to be near you and speak to you even when you might be already talking to someone else. He wants your attention.
i'd say he does like you, if you get the gut feeling he does then your most likely right, go for it. Ask him out for a coffee or something.
if he stutters for words or acts nervous around you then he definately likes you and is probably just low on confidence.
remember if hes making time to be with you hes trying to 'get' with you. So go for it now lol :) gd luck
2006-12-02 05:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by CoolD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he comes in, walk him to the door and ask him if he'd be interested in going out sometime. Sometimes it's good of the girl takes the first step. It can be very reassuring to some men!
2006-12-02 00:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHy don't you ask him personally? if you have the guts, you can ask him personally in private. If you're shy, ask him through sending message by phone, email or even letter. Don't ask him directly (Are you attracted to me?) because it might disappoint or discourage him... I'm not sure if he'll react that way coz I dunno him personally. I guess he likes you girl but people have different thoughts and intentions. and we can't tell what's in his mind. Hope this can help. Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-12-01 23:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by kawai_me87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men generally show shy characteristics to any girl only if they have any emotional attachment(love) to them. Otherwise they speak with girls just frankly. If that guy is seriously loving you he might be fearing of disapproval from your side. He may be short of confidence to propose you. If you are interested in him then give him confidence that you like all aspects of him. He is right in certain things and all. He will come out with thing which is inside him. If you are not interested in it pls just ignore him. He will himself know about it.
2006-12-02 00:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by james 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men r attracted 2 the air blowing accross their nuts lady. if u like him then just ask him out instead of waiting around.
2006-12-01 23:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by dipper9stikk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like he likes you very much talk to him more to be sure if he dose he will come around to ask you out if that's what you want good luck
2006-12-01 23:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by slick o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he does honey...
i think you could of figured that one out by yourself =P
but hey don't listen to everything people say ~ he could be just generally nice to you coz you're a nice person? maybe just friendly and you're taking it the wrong way =O
2006-12-01 23:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by kimee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are girls always asking questions like this on here? "This guy stares at me, holds my hand, buys me stuff, takes me out on dates, and tells me he likes me. Do you think he likes me?" Yes, of course he likes you!
2006-12-01 23:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by jesuspimper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes you if he takes the time to talk to you and take his time around you then he likes you just tell him that you like him
2006-12-01 23:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by punkprincezztrainee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-01 23:52:06 · answer #11 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋