2006-12-01 23:28:09 · 13 answers · asked by margie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't all you can do is push him further away...
2006-12-01 23:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not exactly about convincing him. It's more about getting his attention in a different way than you usually get it. There's also alot of key elements that go into it as well. How long have you been friends, is he single, does he usually have relationship issues when he is in one, do you think there's even a slight chance he might be interested in being more than friends...etc. If you guys have been friends for a long time then it might be too late. You may have fallen into the "just friends" category. Lucky for you though, most guys don't have a problem jumping from friend to boyfriend. You don't have to be beautiful but if your atleast slightly attractive most men would be willing to atleast try it. Best bet, just be honest with him. Let him know that you have been thinking about taking your friendship further.
If you guys barely know eachother then just jump right in. Drop all of your inhibitions and just let him know how you feel. Something good might happen if you try. If you don't try, nothing will happen.
2006-12-02 07:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't always do it. But if there is any hope, I guess you should definitely be kind, honest, and respectful with him (in general too, I suppose). Reasonable optimism is a wonderful quality to have also, because nobody wants to hang out with a depressing personality. That will make you stand out above the rest, because so few women have those qualities. Apart from that, take care of your body. Smoking, drinking, and obesity turn off a lot of guys. Good luck!
2006-12-02 07:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't convince a man to fall in love with you. It has to come naturally. The feelings have to be there, and also the chemistry.
2006-12-02 07:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its the beginning n u r sure he is the perfect guy for u n u r getting some good response too then its easy just seduce him n u will get him closer. Try it. it will work.
Even when the attraction is one way , frm the woman only, the man can hardly do anything to escape. Its something women only can do.
2006-12-02 08:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't convince anyone to fall in love. It either happens or it doesn't. Too bad, huh? If you are fun to be around and not moody all the time, someone might fall in love with you.
2006-12-02 07:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now thats a silly question...wouldnt you rather have them do it by themselves...be yourself and the right person will love you for who you are...some men like me look at a woman for charm humor and individualism..not all of us are in a meat market...you dont look at a diamond because it a diamond..the first thing you become interested in is the sparkle.
2006-12-02 07:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant force someone to be inlove with you..its not a compulsory its a voluntary decision of a person..
2006-12-02 07:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by kirsten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no convincing either he wants to or he doesn't
2006-12-02 07:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that was possible,it would be bottled.People rarely choose who they will love,so if he doesn't love you than for him he hasn't found that person,you need to keep looking for your special person who will love you back.
2006-12-02 07:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant "convince" someone to love you
2006-12-02 07:34:24 · answer #11 · answered by Charles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋