I'm 23 female and had never had a boyfren, no guys had ever told me that he liked me. My colleagues seemed to be making fun of me.
Whenever I make a comment about relationship, they will overrule my view & insist that I dun understadn because I had never had a boyfren before.
Is it a crime that no guys liked me?? Is it my fault?? I'm worried that I'll be a old maid in the end.Will I never be loved in my whole life?? Will i never get the chance to get married??
2006-12-01 22:55:08 · 13 answers · asked by ahbahh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it's not a crime...It might be that there is something in you that you have to build or mold first before entering into a relationship which is good because I believe that you can't give what you don't have..so take time to look at yourself or check yourself up...And if the right guy is really there then No doubt you will find each other...Remember It's better to remain single than to marry the wrong one...so don't be in a hurry because you're still young...
2006-12-01 23:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by jhed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider your situation as a weird one at all. I want to let you know that for every gurl there's a guy waiting. The fact that your "real" guy has not surfaced hitherto doesn't call for any panic on your side. Take it cool cos I can perceive that he's just right there at the corner, only you've not met physically but you'll soon meet each other. My warning is that you should beware to take it cool lest you fall into the hands of a jerk as a result of un-necessary desperation and frustration - do NOT say I didn't warn you. Good luck and have a nice weekend.
2006-12-02 07:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relaxe, it's not such a big deal. It certainly does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Make new friends. Develop a hobby. Iam sure very soon you will find a Prince Charming.
2006-12-02 06:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by elfworth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird, and your colleagues should get stuffed.
Maybe you just haven't found the right guy... I find mine through friends, or school, or work, or the net occasionally.
There's someone for everyone. Eventually, you'll find yours!
In the meantime *hugz* and patience lol!
2006-12-02 07:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by Callisto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, my lovely friend who never had boyfriend so she went to Australia for a hoilday sudden she meet her partner she was 38 yrs old, married him and now got 3 boys. She is very happy. I sure it will happen to you not matter what your age.
2006-12-02 07:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Margaret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is not weird some people who are beautiful on both inside and the outside go through their whole life and never find someone. while most people take on anybody who takes them in.
lf you are smart wait for the right person no matter how long it takes.
2006-12-02 07:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them people to butt out.. If they make fun of you.. Make fun of them..
As far as I know there is no such rule that everone has to have a Boy, Girlfriend.. I happin to know when your choice is right than you will make it...
Don't let these people bother you.. It's your life and not theirs..
2006-12-02 07:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by MinnesotaRick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that uncommon. You will find someone obviously you have respect for yourself and are waiting for the right person.
Good luck!
2006-12-02 06:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by HotMommi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not bad.... send me a pic and lets see, i might ask you out
2006-12-02 06:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by wierauch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..babes..a tip...men can smell desperation a mile off...just chill...it will happen...you are young ya know....good luck...keep smiling....
2006-12-02 06:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋