It is just I am a nice guy and was just wondering how long I am going to be overlooked for. It is just I am in my early 20’s and I want to get married. But I always get overlooked. Why is this don’t girls in their early 20s want to get married?
2006-12-01 22:33:08 · 18 answers · asked by Paul R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For those people who think I am ugly I am not I am about 5ft 9, 11 stone. Broad upper body and have a six pack does that sound like someone who is ugly?
2006-12-01 22:46:40 · update #1
I don't want to get married until I'm at least 30, you need to live a bit first, get out there, meet new people and enjoy yourself before it's too late!!
2006-12-01 22:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by doodlenatty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Focus on finding the right lass rather than just wanting to marry. Take it slowler, by rushing you are bound to just find the wrong sort of girl for you. There are plenty of us out there (girls who like lovely men). I've often felt the same regarding men (all the ones I like seem to go for nasty slutty women) but then I'm looking at an age group that is probably (as a majority not all obviously) way too young to be thinking of what I am (i.e. commitment, loyalty etc.).
Why don't you aim a little older? But most importantly don't think about the finish line until you've even started the race, ignore the marriage part for now. It'll happen when it's right (IF it's right) and not before. Get some practise in wooing the ladies, it'll serve you well when you find that perfect lass!
Incidently I think girls who go for bad blokes are morons. Give me a sweet, caring lovely bloke anyday!
2006-12-02 00:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sarey Gamp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read blondies response,go out and enjoy and take what you can get ,before you get older and it is too late.
I agree with blondie.there is a lot to be said about going out and enjoying yourself.
Although I do admit,I was married at 23,divorced 10 years later,but during the time I was married,it is well worth having children at a younger age,you don't want to be straddled with children when you are older,I am 46,and my children are grown now.
Women over 30 who have children will be raising them until almost 50,then what is a woman to do at that age? I guess it is something to think about ladies.
A woman who marries young and has children early,will have a second lease on life in their late 30's,and early 40's in my opinion,it is almost like having 2 lives instead of wasting it on throwing your young 20ish years away on dirtbags.
2006-12-01 22:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Paul, unless your excuse for your poor language skills is that English is your second language, you can start by getting a decent education. A little literacy goes a long way.
Women are stupid when it comes to dating. They prefer the pecs with legs and the wallets with legs over someone who is just a nice guy that will probably just live a quiet simple life just getting by. Those relationships usually go bad and the women cry why me, why always me!
Fix you language skills and start watching for the same women that are asking the same question that you just asked except that it's about guys. Ask those women out; I think they're waiting for a guy like you.
2006-12-01 22:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'd say in the late 20s. Bad boys are just more interesting, especially at a younger age. This is when we don't really value stability as much as excitement and fun.
2006-12-01 22:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself class myself as a nice guy who has never really struggled to pic up females. You've got to know in your heart of hearts that you want to get married. I suggest you find a girl who you are attracted to and get to know her before you decide to get married.
Before you settle down you should try and have a few different realtionships and get everything out of your system. Go out with friends and have a few one night stands. It wouldn't be good one day that you woke up being 35 years old feeling that you haven't lived. When it's time to get married to that special someone and you know you want to spend the rest of your life with her. Thats when you should want to get married.
Best of luck
2006-12-01 23:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Citizen Ted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got engaged when I was eighteen and was engaged for four years only to split with my little girls dad in the end.Apart from my gorgeous little girl I have wasted years of my life with one man where I should have been trying to find out what I really want in a man and life partner.Dont be in such a rush!!
2006-12-02 02:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by glory_no1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they realise that bad boys are not good partners when:
1) they get their heartbroken so many times because they cheated or just messing around ~ tend to be players?
2) their partner always get themself in trouble ~ so childish and immature, commiting crimes for fun is so stupid ~ in the long term where would that get them?
3) their partner don't tend to have good education ~ without any qualifications where would they get in life? like in the future?? career wise.
4) their partner won't care if they got them pregnant or they're are just in trouble ~ not really the supportive type.
but... i think girls who don't want marriage yet, tend to get bad boys as partners because they are more fun and exciting. like you don't know what to expect next? just for the thrill??
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sorry if i sound stereotypical ~ that's just generally what i think from what i've seen and heard from friends
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i, personally, have never been out with a bad boy =P
just good sensitve guys with an outlook for the future.
2006-12-01 23:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by kimee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? it is the guys that don't want to get married! Ive been ready since i was 18 still hasen't happened the jerks .
2006-12-01 22:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why o why? get a life, go out treat yourself, go on holiday with he lads, do stupid things. DO NOT get tied down, you will only look back and think "what the hell did i do that for" it will happen when you are financially stable and old enough to commit. But if your extremely rich i will marry you (hee hee)
2006-12-01 22:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by nick23647@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋