My boyfriend of bout 6 months just dumped me BY TEXT for some other girl!! as u can imagine i'm very upset but i want to know if anyone has any ideas how to get over him (i've tried for about a month without success) and how to make him realise what he's just lost!!! Any ideas???? Maybe guys could help me out here and tell me how i cud make him jealous??
Thanks
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2006-12-01 22:27:06 · 21 answers · asked by xxbaybigurrlxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do anything childish or make a fool out of yourself. I love to get revenge, don't get me wrong. But there are better ways of doing it. Forget the loser. Make an effort with your appearance every day...not in case you see him or to pull someoen else, but for YOU. Do really well in your job, have fun and try to fulfill your ambitions. It'll kill him to see how well you're doing for yourself. Especially as he'll probably be stuck right where he was when you two were together. He'll see how irrelevant he is and how he probably actually held you back.
2006-12-01 22:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Little One 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Grow up, being dumped is part of life getting revenge is a childish and over reaction. I bet the rest of the women on the net and you included have no bones about dumping boyfriends when it suits you. So, deal with it, I guarantee you a new boyfriend will be on the scene within a few weeks, so, get real.
Don't take notice of answers like those from Trigger, Brandy Luv or Michele, If you do you will have become a sl?g and you will live to regret that. No bloke wants a Sl?g for a girlfriend believe me.
ATB Red
2006-12-02 06:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Redmonk 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Greg Behrendt, in his book "He's just not that into you" (I think that was the title, my memory is rubbish tonight lol.. the book from Oprah) says somewhere that the best form of revenge for these morons is to go on and live a fantastic life... that doesn't look as if you thought about him ever again.
Greg was once guilty of "disappearing" on a gf, and he said when he saw her a year later, outside a shop with her new bf, her behaviour made his look all the more stupid.
Besides, guys don't do these things and NOT realise how lousy their behaviour is. He knows he's been a ********.
Be better than he is. Get a life, burn his picture, and move on as soon as you feel comfortable. Don't give him the satisfaction!
2006-12-02 06:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Callisto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge isn't the answer darlin' it shows he matters. Move on the best you can, Times a healer. As soon as you meet a new bloke you'd have forgotten all about him.
Why live with a guilty conscience?
of course if you really want revenge there is one way: dress up as sexy and as glamorous as you can, ask him to meet you because you want to give him back some stuff he left with you. Meet him and tempt him by saying lets have one last shag, for old times sake. Get him really hot under the collar and then when he is ready to do the deed, Laugh at his dick, saying "god i remember it being bigger than that!" Walk away saying, I Need a real man darlin' not a little boy. Job done.
2006-12-02 06:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure making him jealous would work. I agree its extremely crappy to dump someone over a text message. I would sit him down and just talk to him. Have him explain why he dumped you the way he did. If he is a complete prick to you about it, saying "Because I can!" "I found someone better!" that should be enough to get over him. Why be stuck on a prick when there is surely someone that would appreciate you and not treat you like crap. Hope this helped!
2006-12-02 06:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by biru819 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont think you need to make him jealous, get back at him or hurt him because that makes you just as bad as him. BUT! on the other hand i know how you feel its horrible, so if you insist on getting revenge then maybe start rumours, take a picture of a very very small penis from the net and tell everyone it is his, if you hve anything of his burn it get of with his mate and tell them he was crap in bed. but it probably wont make you feel any better just more angry and bitter. good luck!
2006-12-02 06:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by nick23647@btinternet.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ah .... a month is nothing! it takes longer than that to get over someone u love.
what to do is, stop thinking about revenge! it'd make it even harder for you to move on coz that's all u think about.
go find something better to do .. plus not every guy is the jealous type, wouldn't it be stupid if ur revenge doesn't work ?
now go do something fun and move on
2006-12-02 06:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Best way to make him jealous is to act like the breakup didn't effect you at all ... and that you were actually glad to be rid of him ....
Another way to get back at him is to go to his current GF and tell her you developed a rash in the last few weeks with your ex and you just got the results back .... the Doctor says he should be checked straight away .... and just leave it at that
Good Luck
2006-12-02 06:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with his best friend... Pretend you are so happy for him...
wear sexy clothes all the time... Get another boyfriend who is a lot better than him...
Stay friends with him and try to make friends with his girlfriend..
Tell everybody he has a STD....
Most important thing is to act as if you are really happy for him and that you have moved on...
and staying friends with him means that you can get him back over time and with a little bit of work.. let him confide in you about his problems and dont try it on with him for a few months
2006-12-02 06:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by rup 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Rise above it all. Who needs revenge? Get on with the future. The past is another country.
2006-12-02 06:32:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋