by guys in the past
2006-12-01 22:09:45 · 10 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Exhume your talent and improve your skill. Be somewhat reserve and think that you too are worth something. Oversensitiveness over certain things that are not too important will cost you your health and mental peace.Do breathing exercise and inhale and exhale deeply for 15 minutes in the morning.
2006-12-01 22:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time out for yourself, and try to learn to see yourself as the most important thing now, these men hurting you, had nothing to do with you as a person, and most of all start learning to like yourself again, and eventually you will learn to love yourself also....once you build up your self-esteem again protect your heart and take no prisioners if the next man you encounter even looks like he could be out to hurt you...break it off quick time.
2006-12-03 02:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd spend a nice shopping trip with my friends (girls, of course) and talk with them and try to forget all the boys. Just make a girl-day, that helps! Or two, or three.... Just take a break from the guys. And just so you know: If they hurt you, they weren't worth of you.
The next time, before you go out with a boy, be sure if he's serious about being with you. You'll know if he does, and if you're not sure, ask your friends.
Good luck in future!
2006-12-01 22:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by hot_witch13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I second the other guy. Don't rely on a guy for your self esteem. Your value should come from yourself. Find yourself a hobby. It'll help, no joke.
2006-12-01 22:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by growing up. its life. u make ur own choices. which can either provide the best or worse for yourself. ive been hurt too and im currently in iraq. so grow and quit complaining
2006-12-01 22:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to know that you are a beautiful person and no one can take that away! try putting your feeling first and others last let no (wo)man make you feel less in value for what god intended........stop settling for losers, drama, heartache, and less above your standards when you no there i better out there
2006-12-01 22:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
therapy, clear and simple.
some times having an indifferant person helps. many times, we have to re-learn behavior and congnitive thought pattern. re-learning does help.
2006-12-01 22:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by ifishthereforiam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from them and give yourself the time for you. Pamper yourself, make yourself feel good and slowly it will come back.
2006-12-01 22:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop relying on guys for your sense of self
2006-12-01 22:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by halitobro 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you don't, you're screwed
2006-12-01 22:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋