My mother has disliked every single man I go out with. There is always something wrong....she pretends to like them, and then she will always tell me to find someone better. I just don't get it
2006-12-01 22:06:37 · 15 answers · asked by GiGi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to find you someone better.
2006-12-01 22:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mother will never approve of any man you date. Unless of course you bring home a doctor who already owns his own house and a few cars, maybe a holiday home in a place she likes.
On one side, she is looking out for you, and as she has been alive longer than you, she has had the pleasure and misfortune of knowing a number of boys and men. On the other side, she may not want to you grow up and move out, as she would have lost a daughter.
What you need to do is ask you mum why she doesn't like these guys and get an honest answer from her. Then you need to make up your own mind.
2006-12-01 22:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anna K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was dating my wife my mother didn't like her either,
She was wrong from me, we were too different, etc.
Ultimately I had to examine myself, what was more important, (my wife is the correct answer by the way) Your your mother's daughter, no one will ever really be "good enough" in her eyes until your marrying a multi millionaire that's exactly your age and
belief structure. Make your own decisions, don't discount her opinion all toghether, just make up your own mind.
2006-12-01 22:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Old Wise One 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mother is the same. It is because she herself has never found a good man...they act nice in the beginning and then turn into real jerks. She is just scared I am going to make a mistake and end up with the wrong one. Is she divorced? Or maybe she is seeing something in these guys that you are overlooking.
2006-12-01 22:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sense I can tell you from experience. Every mother I have ever met falls in love with me as soon as I meet the. Mothers, for the most part know best.
I would have to say that you might need to pick better boyfriends.
2006-12-01 22:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by Drew9595 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She probably doesn't think anyone good enough for you. and she' s probably going to miss come the day you marry and she's more alone. so she likes to keep you close by.
Let her knwo you'll always be in her life and that you appreciate her advise but your a big girl and will make your own choices.
2006-12-01 22:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very complicated concern. She curiously loves this guy dearly and he or she delivers in spite of his spouse can not at homestead. I think of they might the two be waiting or hoping for the sick spouse at homestead to pass on, which i be responsive to sounds undesirable and that i'm sorry you're able to witness and submit with this. i think of your mom's relationship concern is particularly her own company, yet I completely disagree that she might carry this guy on your place right this moment on an analogous time as he remains commited to a distinctive relatives and particularly it does disgust me additionally, that she might enable him to act as a father (or attempt to) to you or your siblings. yet human beings are by no potential, ever particularly appropriate, even your mom. all of it is rather selfish, seems to me, that the two one among them try this, yet human beings are in specific circumstances pushed by making use of their thoughts and pass against all logic and what could be proper. appropriate needs to you, you sound like an extremely mature youthful individual and that i'm constructive you will make greater appropriate options on your life once you hit that person age.
2016-12-13 18:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not take it to heart to every suggestion your mother makes. I have come to realize this now.
But one thing is sure being a son, that my mother is quiet possessive and she wants her son not to commit any mistake.
May be that's why you are also being forewarned over and over again.
But It's your life. You have to decide ultimately what you are going to do with your life.
2006-12-01 23:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mani G.India 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one will ever be good enough for you! I never understood that until I had children of my own. But one day someone will prove her wrong, just hang in there!
2006-12-01 22:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one will be good enough for your mother, go ask your father.
If you got no father, then tell you're on your own.
2006-12-01 23:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋