should i stay woth him??

Question

i love a boy in my form and we went out 4 about 8 months b4 and in the end i started having feelings for other people so i broke up with him now i really regret it cos no1 else fancies me or anything and i really miss him

he keeps asking me out and i keep saying i dno and i need time and i really want to say yes but i dont want any1 to kno if i go out with him agien cos we have been out like 5 time and it would b embarrising

i dont kno wat 2 do he ask me out last nyt on msn i sed mayb i explained that i dont want people to know and he agreed if we went out he wouldn't tell anyone should i go out with him agien??

also wen i dumped i also did it cause he's not good at keeping things to himself and told every1 things i say and i dont think he can keep it 2 himself??

Answer 1

Darlin' Don't go out with him because you feel like no on else will want you. You can do better surely, If you don't like him why put yourself through the misery?. He obviously wants you, which is a nice feeling right? But you don't want him do you, So date other guy's, I'm sure there are plenty of cute guy's who'd love a sweet and kind lady like yourself. Say NO unless you think you can build a relationship with this boy. Ask your self; "is he attractive?" "can I do better?" "will I be happy on a date with him?"

You should live a little darlin', don't settle for OK when you can have fantastic!

Answer 2

This is the future of our world?

Firstly honey, learn to write in English. At some point, if not many times in you life, you will need to write someone a letter who's opinion matters to you. Who knows, maybe someday all communication will be done by text msg, but in the slight hope that doesnt happen....Its not difficult to use the spell checker. And being stupid stops being cool after the age of 17 or so.

Secondly, if you upped your intelligence, maybe more guys would fancy you. Guys who have a good chance of getting a job after school. Seriously, theres so much more to being a woman than straightening your hair and piling slap on. If thats how you type I cant imagine what you sound like. How old are people in this country when they learn to spell "again"? Maybe its me?

This guy sounds desperate. So do you, on account of the fact youve "gone out" five times. SO. Break the cycle, read some books, wait for the smell of desperation to fade, and you'll eventually be fighting the guys off. Good Luck.

Answer 3

1. You dumped him because you had the hots for an unspecified number of other people.
2. Now you want him back, not because you genuinely care for him, but only because there is nothing better on offer at the moment.
3. If you get back together with him, you plan to keep him hidden from view because you consider him to be an embarrassment to you.
Please, please, please do the guy a favour and never speak to him again. Maybe that way he'll get the message that you're a shallow, stupid person, which will in turn enable him to look for someone normal.

Answer 4

If you want to get back with him, do it, and take the emberassing bullet. Maybe you shouldn't have broken up with him in the first place, and the emberassment is just the price you have to pay for that.
On the other note, talk to him and let him know how irritating it is that he talks about everything you say and stuff. Reitterate it a few times and eventually he'll get it.

Answer 5

It doesn't sound like that you're really that into him, as if you feel the need to go out with him as there is no one else on the horizon. You need to try to decide how you actually feel about him before you do anything else, otherwise you might end up being unfair to both you and him.

Answer 6

The way you handle your life should have nothing to do with what others might think. If you like him then go for it. There is nothing wrong with it. Always put yourself first and if he is what you want then say yes before he looses interest in you. I don't think you would be happy if you see him with someother girl. DOn't care about what poeple will say because they will always have something to say. What makes you say it will be embarrsing. How could you say u will feel that way if you dated him. there is nothing embarrasing about that. Go for Him if you love him.

Answer 7

The poor fellow is head over heels in love with you..
My opinion on you is that you are beautiful, about 15 years of ages, try to be in the cool gang but that you are not totally in it yet... you are immature,, selfish--you want everything,,, and worry too much about what your "cool" friends might think about it... you will be in the future a cheating slapper..
He is willing to have a relationship with you on any terms.. leave him alone, and dont break his heart again

Answer 8

So basically you kind of like him but want something better, but as there's nothing better available, you're thinking that you might go out with him again.

Just don't bother, nowt wrong with being single for a bit, nothing wrong with it at all.

Answer 9

Don't do it if its just because you cant find anyone else at the moment and if you don't really want to be with him
that's just using him
but if you do miss him and do like him then it shouldn't matter what anyone else says, lifes to short :-)

Answer 10

just dont go out with him cos u dont trust him one bit !
he obviously likes u a lott and desevres to go out with a girl hu likes him too and hu trusts him !
tc
all the best