I have been together wif my BF for 6 years..i want to get married to him since i'm ready to settle down(i'm 25)..but he seems doesn't want to settle down yet..he even told me to find another man to marry if i couldn't wait for him..if he really2 love me..he shouldn't says that rite..not only that..we r from different church..he wants me to follow his church in order for us to get marry and he said clearly he won't marry me if i don't ..
he's a very good guy..but i'm not sure wheter he really loves me..sometimes i also not sure whether i still love him or not..he broken my heart by saying those word to me...
2006-12-01 21:38:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he seems distance nowadays..last time in the early years of our relationship he call@sms me frequently..we like always short of pocket money in those day topping up our credit..now..he doesn't call@sms me much..he only sms@call once per day..i knew we both working but sms only take seconds rite..
i told him about this other guy who r interested in me..and my BF laugh and said to me"couldn't u find someone better than me???"..u see..my BF is an engineer and the other guy is a medical assistant and i'm a dentist.but..if he love me he should be jealous..
sometimes i have the feeling he's hiding something from me..cuz everytime we quarelled..he always told me to find someone else...
i dunno what to do..if its only like 2 yr..i'll dump him..but we r 6 yr..our family knew each other..all our friends expecting us to get married..
2006-12-01 23:40:05 · update #1
Dump the guy and the relationship. I know 6 years is a very long time but woman he told you to find someone else. If you care about someone are those the things that you say to them? I mean seriously girl, can you see yourself saying ok honey you go find yourself another woman.
I changed my religion also. My mother-in-law didn't want a Catholic girl to marry her son. I changed to her religion and guess what, we all left the church to go to a non-denominational church. Stay with what you believe in. Be real and be you. There is someone out there that is a perfect match rather then a match that you have to force the pieces together and make it fit.
2006-12-01 21:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am sorry to hear about this. 6 years really is along time to just to decide to end a relationship. Men are always afraid of big commitments like marriage but then him telling you to find another to marry you is actually not the best thing to tell sb you love. About attending diff. churches it's not such a big deal but talk to him and really find out if he is ready to throw everything away. Keep your head up and don't rush in making any decisions. Wish you all the best.
2006-12-01 22:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of you are ready to get married...he seems to know it's NOT what he wants right now...you're confused. You want to marry him yet you're not sure you love him, etc...just give the raltionship some more time...or move on
2006-12-01 21:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to follow his church and see what happens.
2006-12-01 21:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kaushall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon itz time 2 find a different new man!
2006-12-01 21:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave da guy. coz if he loves u he must b able 2 love u as u r.
2006-12-01 21:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by @LpHi!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but ithink the love and the connection is gone.
2006-12-01 21:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by LIZARD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he loves u but he dont wanna have legal relationship with u.
2006-12-02 12:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by dena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end the relationship.
2006-12-01 22:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
you should continue your life whit out this man
2006-12-01 21:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by nicegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋