okayyy so. a few months ago i met this guy, he's my TA for piano and i think we're getting a little closer everyday. i've never noticed him until he started talking to me and making me laugh. i really really love him but there's one problem, he has a girlfriend.... i know what you're gonna say, "get away from him and look for someone else!" i've tried that before but it's so hard that i just couldn't do it. and yesturday he hugged me =D but i didn't know he was about to until he did it. but everytime i've tried to get away from him, he just kept coming back. i don't know what to do. should i wait for him? or i shouldn't be wasting my time? please help me!
(oh and he don't know i like him cause i don't want to tell him yet. at least not when he has a girlfriend.)
2006-12-01 21:33:47 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suggest being up front about your feelings. Presuming there isn't too great of an age difference between you(?) if he reciprocates, then it's up to him to decide what to do about his "other" girlfriend. You should consider, however, that he may reject you because he is in a happy relationship already. You may lose a friend and TA over it, or you may end up with a new boyfriend. But you won't know which until you express yourself. Good luck :)
2006-12-01 21:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For sures girl. Wait until he dumps his girl. Continue your life as normal. Don't wait up for this guy while he's still with another girl. But then again, even if he dumps his girl for you, what happens when you're his girlfriend and he's teaches some other little cutie. Then it's out with the old in with the new yet again, however you're on the other end of the spectrum this time. Be careful.
2006-12-02 05:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you find him irresistible, my telling you anything different won't work.Under the circumstances when you have fallen head over heels, all I can say is that apply your mind more than your heart and wait for your turn and, something different to happen. If by any chance his leaves his girl friend, you can be his choice.This is for sure that he has lured you into it and will do whatever he wishes since you have lost control over you.Sometimes think of his girlfriend also, as she is too is a woman who looks upon him as a trusted friend and expects him to be a person of fidelity. Aren't you indirectly hurting the cause of another women and falling prey to guiles of a man who will do and might already be doing the same with another(third) girl.
2006-12-02 05:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u gonna play or not, game works like this there is a time when people are changing horse in mid stream is the only way through your thoughts some ways the competition makes the changes and you gotta say do you like what i got better than what your getting and if you do what will it change, ask if you got a chance to play could it make you replace her. there are no rules that say decisions are singular until the sample test come back from the lab (brain)
2006-12-02 05:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. He'll probably see that you're the one for him. As you say, you're getting closer to him everyday which is a good thing. He'll come around don't worry
2006-12-02 05:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by jo4idol 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is Kill your love for him right this minute or you will hurt yourself bad.
If he really likes you he will break up with his girlfriend and come to you, so its right to just wait and shut your mouth. Be decent.
2006-12-02 05:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by Dave S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nobody likes a home wrecker so dont try to influence him to like you cuz karma will get you trust me..jus let it flow and enjoy watchin your eye candy.
2006-12-02 05:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by chika0284 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel as long as hes not married what you got to lose nothing nventured is nothing gained
2006-12-02 05:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Charles H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋