i love the father of my child deeply. imiss him so much every minute of everyday. he says he feels the same way about me but his actions don't same the same. he says its because of his family's feelings about me. ones they acquired because he used me as a scapegoat in a situation his family would have disowned him had he not had someone to blame for his mistake (Me). now we have a child together, a beautiful,beautifull,little girl. we dont live togrther never have but dated for 7 years on and off mostly on
i would do anything to have him in my life. could he love me or do i just need to let it go.
2006-12-01 21:16:36 · 4 answers · asked by debbie m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it hasn't changed in seven years it probably never will. He used you as his scapegoat to his family...so he is weak and his family now thinks you are the one to blame, you have a child but he doesn't live with you so there is no father figure for him/her. If it has been seven years I don't think he will feel the need to commit now. He has everything he could want. After all he is the center of attention. Not you or your child. Take care of you. You have to. You have a child who looks up to you.
2006-12-01 21:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I am totally in the same situation. As other people keep telling me which applies to you as well, let him go hes a loser and you and your daughter deserve better. I hope that helps but i know you will carry it in your heart forever!
2006-12-01 21:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this, but you don't have any chance to make this happen. He has already disrespected you by telling lies about you in order to cover his own butt.
I'm afraid you could never build a positive life with this WEAK man.
Good luck !
2006-12-01 21:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by Maewest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go..if he doesnt stick up for you..he can never love you.not the way you and your little girl deserve..find someone who will move heaven and earth to be with you
2006-12-01 21:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋