why do girls always say that "its our first date, dont you think its too soon?" when they they know that they wanna do it too?
2006-12-01 21:16:26 · 14 answers · asked by Peep STyLL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having sex on the first date is comes off as slutty and desperate. That's where you get questions on Yahoo Answers that say, "I slept with him. Do U think he likes me?"
The first date really is too soon considering ppl barely get to know each other when they start "dating" now. (or at least what is really seems like)
2006-12-01 21:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... they might wanna do it.. but on a first date you tend to get that excited feeling running through you.
they just wanna wait a little longer so that you both know better whether you are right for each other (long after the excitment of first date has worn off)
girls are in a more vulnerable position when sleeping with a guy. eg. getting pregnant. so they wanna make sure you are worth the risk even though they wana do it.
2006-12-02 05:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Spidergurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends entirely on the girl.
Some will want to do it on the first date, some will want to wait to make sure you are not a nut case or potential stalker.
Some girls may think they may be classes as "easy" if they sleep with guys on the first date. But as one of my friends put it, the guys know which girls are nice girls and which girls are skanks, even if they sleep with them on the first date - it doesn't make a difference. A nice girl can have sex on the first date and still be seen as a nice girl. It depends on the guy.
2006-12-02 05:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Many a female may want to do it, but men will always think a woman is too easy that "puts out" on the first date.
2006-12-02 05:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no, no, no, no. It's not ok to have sex with a girl on the first date. It's AWESOME to have sex with a girl on the first date. Girls can't fess up to liking sex or else they can't make you do a bunch of crap for them before they give it to you. Tell the girl the only wrong time for sex is when she's ovulating.
2006-12-02 05:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's okay.
Although, the reason why they say that is because they probably aren't too keen on having sex with you yet, since they are not very trusting of you or whatever reason. In other words, they want sex, but they need better reasons to have it with you.
2006-12-02 05:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Magic Rapport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, they said that so? so, u can know if it is the first date or not, u know the one who dated before and who did not do it at all through experiencing it.
then, having sex in the first date is not logic, u should know at least her hobbies , favorites, what he likes, are we animals?,,??
2006-12-02 05:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by gentle whisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no. It all depends on how you and the other person is. You could wake up the next morning and be completely amazed, or you can wake up in the morning and a week later you realize the the other person is a total nut case.
2006-12-02 05:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do You know that for sure? Respect what a girl says and she'll respect you !!
2006-12-02 05:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont wanna come off as "easy"... so they make you think they want to wait... even if they're horny, its worth waiting to keep from being labeled as "cheap" or "easy"
2006-12-02 05:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋