ok....so i like this guy but i dont know if i should see him cos my dad really wants me to concentrate on my studies at the moment, im really interested in him, i just dont want to create problems with my dad.
Should i see him? without telling dad???he gets crazy wen he thinks im being distracted. Im 19 by the way
2006-12-01 21:05:00 · 8 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesnt pay for my education im on a scholarship
2006-12-01 21:13:49 · update #1
You can make your own decision however it sounds like you live at home with your dad right? And he pays for your education? Yeah, as long as you live under his roof, respect him and his suggestions/rules. Especially if it will distract you from your school. If your dad pays for your school, make it worth it to him and get good grades. Don't go behind his back. That only causes problems. And if he finds out, he'll never really really like the guy because the guy caused you to "disobey" or whatever. Umm, if I were in your situation, and this is my suggestion, if you really like the guy, let the guy know you like him, but don't let it get to a point where it distracts you from school. Hang out with him and make passive references to him when your dad is around but not directly to him so that he knows that you are at least friends with the guy, but he isn't anything to worry about. Gradually let the guy get closer and closer, but keep your school in check, don't get distracted. Eventually you guys will be going out, and you'll have your school under control, and your dad will realize that you are capable of both, and all problems are solved.
2006-12-01 21:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your dad about letting you make your own decisions you are an adult. If this guy can help you with your studdies that would make everyone happy. Still you can study and date at the same time. If this guy respects you he will respect your life and your studdies. I'm a guy and I do my best to do just that all of us should. Good luck.
2006-12-02 05:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ertgert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 19. You're an adult. Set some boundaries with dad, explain to him that you'll follow through on your studies, and see the guy if that's what you want to do. Don't sneak around, though.
2006-12-02 05:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by hallowlulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to see young people who still respect their parents ... but not allowing you to see this guy at all ... I think that is a little harsh .... talk to your dad .... tell him that you're going to be thinking of this boy anyways and that alone will be a distraction .... if you could maybe see him on weekends or something ????
Good Luck :)
2006-12-02 05:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the guy a date or two and tell him what you say here and see if it works to just once and a while til you can handle the problems that go with complication and school work at the holidays and whatever
2006-12-02 05:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no se lo que escribes, no se leer en ingles pero si te gusta ese muchacho dicelo y anda con el!!!jejejeje â¥â¥â¥â¥
2006-12-02 05:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♥MaRiaNa CR♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
studies first.....
your dad want you to have better future..
ok?
2006-12-02 05:08:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to him. He is right!
2006-12-02 05:20:41 · answer #8 · answered by alegna_2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋