2006-12-01 20:33:45 · 12 answers · asked by GOODGIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I lost mine at 22......... and its the best thing i done for myself, having waited ;-)
Actually I nearly lost it at 19 to this guy who I'd bin dating for a long time and I thought he was the one, but he was always pressurising me for sex and when I backed out at the last minute bcuz I wasn't ready, he got really angry and left. So I told him not to come back.
Since then I've bin cautious and now when I finally took the big step with my long-term bf, I realised how special the concept of virginity is. These days people treat it like a taboo, as if it's strange to be a virgin - so I was intrigued at ur Q and thought why not share my experience wiv u!
Btw no it didn't hurt bcuz I was ready for it and we are in love. And no I didn't bleed so I think my hymen must have broken befor
2006-12-01 20:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lara D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was really really drunk, recently lost my religion so was morally ok with it and being really drunk was probably the only way it would ever happen b/c im too self conscious and inhibited.....wasn't enjoyable as much as it was something i felt i needed to do and get out of the way....with that being said i don't regret it one bit or feel like it was a waste even though i have and will only seen the girl once in my life and that was that night....i can have my first meaningful sex some other time and it won't be any different having done this....
2006-12-02 04:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by bradwissmueller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost mine to a 32 year old nympho who lived next door. I was 15 at the time. It was summer of 1977 the best summer of my life. Now it would be called rape but it wasn't the way i looked at it. I was getting something that most guys my age only dreamed about. I learned from her how to please a woman. It's something i will carry very close to my heart for the rest of my life.
2006-12-02 04:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 18 now and I lost mine on my 18th birthday earlier this year. It was a surprise from my very experienced 23 year old amazing gf which tied me up, blindfolded me and "raped" me for my first time. It was great since it was a total surprise it was on my birthday.
2006-12-02 05:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18, I'm a virgin, and I'm staying a virgin until I'm married!
2006-12-02 04:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think men respect you more when you wait. I was abused when I was 8 years old. So you are blessed. My daughter is 28 and she is waiting for that part of her future relationship. Take care and be selective. I believe that God and men honor that.
2006-12-02 04:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's like your first time driving a car or your first time playing golf: you suck at it, you feel sore afterwards and everybody there knows it! Of course, you feel like an idiot until you get the hang of it...that's the nature of the game!
2006-12-02 04:41:48 · answer #7 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17....I was waiting until marriage but I met this guy in a band who was a guitar player and he was sooooooo hot. We were together for 3 months and I ended up losing it with him on his and his (ex) wife's bed.... I kinda wish I was still a virgin.
2006-12-02 04:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by RockabillyBanana 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
first time always sucks! make sure you can trust the person.
i lost my virginity at 17 on the beach with a friend of mine... i was drunk. have never seen him again. he disappeared
2006-12-02 04:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bamma 13 year old. Bamma sold to highest bid. Bamma cried for weeks. Bamma made family money. Bamma made mother happy. Bamma kept food on table. Bamma ran away. Bamma 6 years India. Bamma computer geek now. Bamma hate sex. Bamma otta know.
2006-12-02 04:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋