caught the boyfriend cheating. He finally admits it after I confronted him with evidence. I kicked him out and told him to go back to the b$%#@ house. He's sitting out in the car. I also broke his phone. What now?
2006-12-01 19:48:09 · 33 answers · asked by this is it 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should i bust up his tv. or cut up his clothes?
2006-12-01 19:50:27 · update #1
F*&^#er keeps knocking ! ! ! Oh and I'm not letting him in, he shouldn't have a problem going back to the b#%$ house. He all of a sudden has a problem going there now. all crying and s$%#.
2006-12-01 19:52:01 · update #2
I already beat him in the head when he was bowing down trying to apologize. and told him that he had better sleep here tonight, because he would not wake up in the morning.
2006-12-01 19:59:13 · update #3
I think you did the right thing, If I were you, I wouldn't over react though, don't mess up his clothes, I think you would make a bigger, better, stronger point if you just took his clothes and his tv, put it in boxes in front of your house ( like on the door step) and just left it there w/ his name written on it.
Don't let him get the best of you, he cheated on YOU, he's the dog, not you.... he made his bed, let him lie in it... you deserve better! Plus, isn't there a saying: Once a cheater, always a cheater...
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-01 19:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Buckwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really glad you kicked him out! Why is heck is he sitting out in the car? Well, he shouldn't have cheated in the first place if he wanted you wanted back. Its a tired day, you should drink a warm beverage and forget about him and go to sleep. Then, (I agree with the person who said about the earmuffs) wear some earmuffs. In the morning, you will forget about him. Also, you should bring all the stuff he gave you back to him.
2006-12-02 04:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by always smile. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all up to you, girl. You have to decide if you can forgive him and let it go. If you do decide you can live with the mistake he has made you can't constantly be bringing it up. Doing that will only sabotage your relationship even more...and there would be no point in continuing on.
If you can't get passed the hurt and betrayal, tell him to keep on packin. Personally, if he did it to you once, what would stop him from doing it again? Is it worth taking that chance? Would you constantly be wondering where he is and what/who he's doing at any given time you're not together?
2006-12-01 19:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kristen A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't talk to him for awhile. He'll have to leave at some point. Call a friend, your sister/brother, mom, or someone you can trust and see if they can come over for the night. Right now you need people you love around to keep you sane. Give yourself a couple of days apart from the JERK and then if he has stuff at your place, talk to him about what days he can come get his stuff. Don't give in to any crap about "oh baby I'm sorry, I didn't love her... blah blah blah." The best thing you can do is pretend he wasn't worth your time and act like you are OK. Good luck and I'm sorry you had to go through this.
2006-12-01 19:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Actually paying him attention at this point, is feeding him hope. ignore his triflin a$$ and go watch a good movie to take your mind off of things. You've been strong so far but the longer you give him the time of day, the more likely itll be for you feel sorry for him and take him back. Dont do it! be strong!
2006-12-01 20:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by BeautifuLL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him there. Go to bed with a nice cup of cocoa and forget about him. If he's cheated once, then he'll cheat again.
Don't break his TV, that will only make him mad. But if he keeps knocking on the door, then try some earmuffs when you get into bed. It will make the noise go away.
2006-12-01 19:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
you can hear his apologies, then if he is sitting in the car means he wants to makeup, so he loves you... It's up to you to make a decision, by the way, if you make up, be sure to ask him why he cheated, so this can never happen again
2006-12-01 19:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by onutza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Caught the boyfriend cheating? What boyfriend....
You did good! Once a cheater always a cheater....move on
2006-12-01 19:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why not jump on the net and ask a bunch of strangers what to do?
Oh, I see you did that already....
My advice; stick to your guns. You've got him out, so let him stay there.
2006-12-01 19:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by Bart S 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater..let him learn his lesson, if you take him back he will think " if I can get away with it once..I will get away with again " do your self a favour...if he doesn't leave call the cops.
p.s don't break any more of his stuff, it could come back and bite you in the A**!!!!
2006-12-01 19:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋