This **** is eating me up inside. I care about my girl a lot. Been dating for 6 mounths. She has baby by her first. They lived together & everything. They have been broken up 4 about 2 year but I can tell she still was messin with him earlier this year. She talks about this dude a little 2 much. She said he brought down her self esteem and that I bring it back up. The last dude she was with before felt theartin buy her babys father. She tells me the last dude she didn't even like, I ain't stupid I know he must have been the rebound guy since she said he wasn't attractive and he was bad in bed & how she tells me old storys I can see she used him to make her baby's father jealous. Enters me, she invited me to the babys b-day party I didn't go I felt uncofortable(kid dad & his family). but the next night I'm with her she roles over and says "I'm sorry for fallin asleep at the party" WHAT! Its 3 months later. Does she stil care 4 him? Mind say leave, heart says stay!! What should I do?
2006-12-01 19:28:17 · 12 answers · asked by p q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her...she is messing around, talks about him constantly, and by the sounds of it she is disrespecting you. You have to remember that she has another baby's daddy and that he will be in her life as while as yours for how ever long the both of you are together. And if she is messing around with him you should just find someone new who will treat you with the respect that you deserve. There's no reason why you should be placed second to her ex....
2006-12-01 19:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by GOODGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no trust in the relationship, don't waste your time trying to make it work. Of course trust is earned, but it sounds like she has broken that trust, it takes a long time to rebuild trust, no matter how much you want to trust her, it doesn't happen over night. It also sounds like she has a heavy luggage!! how do you know that she is telling you the truth about her previous b/f? maybe she broke his trust too! I would say to move on, you have only been with her 6 months and you are already having problems. Find someone that you can trust and that makes you happy.
2006-12-01 19:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave its clear something weird is going on. If you can't bring yourself to leave confront her about these things and make your decision. Ma ybe once you know the facts you will be able to decide easier and it will mean less heartache in the long run
2006-12-01 19:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did they break up?? think about who ended it? I would talk to her about and tell her that you feel uncomfortable with her talking about him all the time and if she still has feelings for him maybe you should take a break dont break up but take a break and let her see if she misses you let her feelings come out and see what happens but I would only do that if you really care for her....
2006-12-01 19:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut your heart up - fast. This girl is immature, manipulative and uncaring. And one more thing for you to ponder: people who badmouth others never just badmouth one person, they do it to everyone they know. So if she is saying her last boyfriend was bad in bed, ugly, etc. imagine what she is saying about you behind your back.
2006-12-01 19:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE, I am sorry to say she is trash and sounds like she is only using you. It also sounds like she is very immature. There are plenty of good women out there sweetie, go find one.
2006-12-01 19:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by Fruit Cake Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a waste of time.
2006-12-01 19:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant really give good advice..but i hope tis can help..i think maybe u guys should talk..give her some time to forget tat guy..usually girls cant forget their 1st love..
2006-12-01 19:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in a relationship with her, not her ex. If she insists on making it a three-way by continualy dropping his name, drop her.
2006-12-01 19:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE!! U being used as a porn in her games, the only going to get hurt is u!!
2006-12-01 19:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋