i'm in love with my math teacher, and he's married...with children. i know that it's wrong, but i can't help myself to be attracted to him! i really like him! what should i do?!
2006-12-01 19:17:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you are confusing love with attraction. you said you know it is wrong in so many ways to include the age difference as well as what it would do to his career if he engaged in a relationship with you...
you will continue to be attracted to men throughout your life and some of them may be married with children, but remember getting involved in that can hurt not just you, but the person he is cheating on if that were to happen.
2006-12-01 19:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Don A. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A school teachers crush thats priceless Im sure his wife is very much in love with him to I would put myself in her shoes how would she feel if something happened that cant be undone how the kids go throygh life what would there life be like in a broken up home your very beautiful im sure theres someone out there for you Heh who knows maybe im that someone how will we know I to wanted alot of things and of course had make a choice between what I want and what I need we can all live without what we want its what we need thats important.
2006-12-01 19:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by kauaiboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, in love? Try lust honey. Don't be a homewrecker!! He has children, it's pretty bad that you would even consider making a move. Get your emotions in check and leave it as a fantasy!!
There are alot, me included of girls who have a thing for men in authority, teachers, bosses, etc. It doesn't mean its love.
Stay away.
2006-12-01 20:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kristen A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do absolutely nothing. He is taken so live with it. You'll eventually get over him, believe me. I think we all have had these kind of crushes on teachers or someone in our lives. Just remember him always with fondness. Besides, if you really knew him, he probably wouldn't be what you'd really want anyway.
2006-12-01 19:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Fruit Cake Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get involved with him you will have a lifetime feeling og guilt and you will break so many hearts plus, when you get close to him you will understand that he has not been as perfect as you thought ,and then the feeling will get more terrible.and believe me if you do this it will come back to you one day .means your life will also been ruined in some ways.so why not chosing a free guy and live a healthy life?
2006-12-01 20:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by maryame5071 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to have such crushes at a very young age.
You can love him in your fantacies. You can feel him while you MST**BT.
But do not ruin his family life by going more in person.
I bet you will enjoy the relationship more in fantacies than in reality.
2006-12-01 19:23:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can't help the way you feel, but you're in total control of your actions. Nobody is saying you must act on your feelings. You know it would be wrong to do so.
2006-12-01 19:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm good at math. You need a tutor so that you can impress your teacher?
2006-12-01 19:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Michelle Michelle, you are way too hot to be with a math guy.
2006-12-01 19:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming your under 18... There's not much you can do about it. If you're 18 or over, then you might be able to convince him to leave his family.
2006-12-01 19:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by kevin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋