pleaze answer me trurthfully
2006-12-01 19:14:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uhh, dump his sorry A s s~!
2006-12-01 19:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by HarleeNicole 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If "it" is referring to your virginity, then let me tell you a little something- I'm 19 and a virgin. My boyfriend has had several sex partners before me. I told him early in the relationship what my virginity was really important to me and that I didn't want to give it to him. Nothing against him, I just didn't want to give it away yet. I told him that if he really cares about me, that he'd care about this too. I told him I'm not like the other girl's he's dated and if that was going to bother him too much, that he should just break up with me, I also told him that if he did break up with me, he'd be an asshole.
Think about it! If it was ANYTHING else, would he pressure you? For example, "Hunny, if you really love me you'll jump off of a cliff" It's something that he wouldn't ask of you, because hopefully he knows it would hurt! Just like that would hurt physically, loosing your virginity can also hurt emotionally if you don't give it away on your terms, especially if you value your virginity.
If I were you, I'd give your heart some time... if he's pressuring you into giving away your virginity, then he sounds like a creep to me, but if you love you, and if you do care about him... then nothing should stop you... just make sure you're fully aware of all the risks involved with sex and make sure you have protection and everything else...
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-02 04:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Buckwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all sex is a very little part of being in love if he really loves he would"nt look at you like a peace of meat you should know does he call it making love or having sex theres a difference if sex is all he cares about what about what really makes you happy I know theres alot of other ways people spend time together sex or better yet making love should have a special moment other than that it loses its purpose allow yourself the chance to filter out what he really wants from you if its only sex loose the dude he is'nt worth the pleasure you can give him.
2006-12-02 03:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by kauaiboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my daughter was in her younger teens, she asked me about "blue balls" and is it a real condition? Your question reminds me of my answer to her,"If he really liked you for YOU, he wouldn't need to push IT!"
"Love" and his blaming his hormones, or any other malady shouldn't even be brought into the same equation. Guys' needs are basic. Trust me, if they want it and you say "no", IF he's a heel, he won't stop at that and he'll look elsewhere. Do you really want a man like that?
By the way, he doesn't sound like a keeper to me. Keep looking; true love is out there for everyone.
2006-12-02 03:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by coorissee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is reality, depends on how long you have been together. And It depends on how you feel.In these days and times it will be very difficult to keep a boyfriend without a little bump and grind.Don't let any one pressure you in to something you don't want to do.
there are men who will wait but not many real men will. Just make sure you use protection.
2006-12-02 03:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by blackbolt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn it around and tell him that if he truly loved YOU, then he can wait until you are ready for that next step in the relationship. I guarantee you, he'll lose interest and will be out of life looking for someone who will give it to him, but then you will know he never really loved you in the first place.
2006-12-02 03:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by Don A. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it because he's pressuring you. Do it when you are ready. Here's a thought, if he really loves you he'll wait because deep inside he doesn't want to lose you if you meant that much to him. Now it could be that he's just testing if you'll give in.
But if you think you're ready and you do want to give it up to him and nobody else...it's your choice I guess I'd say enjoy....
Bottom line...it's your body, it's your choice....
2006-12-02 03:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by sk97us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give what up? Smoking? Drinking? Drugs? You should listen to him.
Anything else, you should only do what you feel comfortable with and not let anyone pressure you into anything you don't want.
2006-12-02 03:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to him...Not sure how old you are or how long you two have been dating, but you should do something like that only because you want to. If you are not ready and he really loves you, he can wait.
2006-12-02 03:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by sweetienat123 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All he wants is to get in ur pants... sorry hun he doesnt love u he wants whats in ur pants. Dump him get rid of him. If a guy really loves u he WILL wait till ur ready!
2006-12-02 03:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's the oldest emotional blackmail in the book: "If you really loved me you would ____ ". Don't buy into this nonsense. Do what you want to do when you want to do it. It's all about respect.
2006-12-02 03:17:46 · answer #11 · answered by Bethany 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋