Who likes casual sex ? Do u see a problem? Why isn't there more of it ???

Question

The world would be a better place if there were more casual rooters, as long as you wear protection does anyone see a problem with it ????????

Answer 1

no problem at all i think its only natural

Answer 2

Sex is about morals. Some do it because they like the feeling, some will do it when they are with some one they love or think they love, and others wait until marriage. The problem is, is that guys are incouraged to take a way a young womans or even a girls innocence. You might not see it like that, but that's what's going on. Sex is not supposed to be had for teenagers and even some adults, sex is for creating new life. Love making is for people who are in love (or believe they are), but as I believe, married couples. I'll stop there because I need not bore the world with my 15 year old opinions.

STD's wouldn't be such a problem if we only had one partner. Nor would overpopulation and killing of innocent babies(and yes when they are aborted it hurts when they are injected with the poison or ripped apart, they do feel it and writhe in pain).

Answer 3

Even with protection you can get venerial diseases including HIV. Because condoms break and are not a hundred percent. And the people I see having casual sex usally don't use protection. They get caught up in the moment. The problem I see is as a woman it's unsafe to go meet someone for sex without knowing them. Guys it is different. For me, I like sex but only when i am in a relationship. I don't do causal sex, it is not for me.

Answer 4

Even with protection, casual sex is incredibly dangerous. If a sperm, which is much bigger than a virus, can sneak through a condom, a virus could easily get through. Sex does relieve tension, usually, but none the less, can be dangerous. Certain viruses can even lead to cancers and even death.

Answer 5

No i dont have a problem with it jsut to me i like to love the person dont necsiarly have to me married but hell everyone i was with i had some what of an attraction so no i dont think theres a problem at all with casula sex, ive got friend that would do that for me in a flash if i wanted
so no

Answer 6

Sex is so tied up with emotional feelings that it is difficult to have really casual sex. It's part of our evolutionary history -- it keeps people together to raise young, and thus increases the survival of the species.

Answer 7

People should even be shaking hands to stay healthy let alone spread VD and AIDS. One out of 4 has herpes. The world is not a better place with all these people who can't control themselves.

Answer 8

EEeyah.....casual sex is being more and more accepted anyway, to each their own.

BUT.....there are people who fall in love....who grow attached to certain people, if it was so right then WHY do you have these painful feelings they call heartbreak? Why the jealousy, why the unusual sense of worthlessness or being used when people go their separate ways, or they decide to casually have sex with friends n stuff? It ain't cliche, you can't tell me these people MAKE themselves feel this way..that's bullshit, someone tells me to f*ck off there's no way society told me to NOT feel like i wanna kick his *ss.

But there are people who feel differently, as do most of the ones here who accept it. Can they separate that....good for them.....maybe they honestly don't love as deeply as some do. But for me, that whole casual sex is just bullsh*t to me, I tried the sh*t...it don't work for me. Hell i can't even get off without being in love with someone, so i can't just go up to some stranger and screw, then move on. There's no love..it's just sex....and out of the women that i did it with i got nothing out of them when it was just casual...not to mention the drama that went along with it. With my fiance it's the greatest thing I've ever had cause i'm in LOVE with her...and she loves me back....when they don't....it's nothing for me.

And there many like me who have to be in LOVE to really get that kick out of having sex. So as long as there are people out there like that....well then casual sex will always conflict with monogamy. I don't know how ya'll can do it....but then animals do it so i suppose it's only natural

If you can risk the diseases, avoid the ones who believe in genuine love, and can separate that feeling yourself....then have at it...

But for people like me...i won't say it's necessarily wrong, but it has too many issues with it. Too many trial and errors, or russian roulettes...and when you find yourself supposedly in 'love' with someone, it makes it seem more out of convenience when you marry them, and for the sake of companionship or a good friend, rather than solely for the sake that one person makes you happy COMPLETELY.

Answer 9

What is the point to casual sex? Although sex is enjoyable it does not necessarily exist for pleasaurable reasons! It is for reproduction! Sex is great with one person and not casually!

Answer 10

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH CASUAL SEX. SOCIETY HAS EVERYONE THINKING THAT THEY HAVE TO BE HITCHED OR MARRIED. SO LESS PEOPLE THINK OF CASUAL SEX. I HAD CASUAL SEX WITH A GUY 6 YEARS AGO, WE BOTH KNEW THAT WHEN WE CALLED EACH OTHER IT WAS STRICTLY FOR SEX. I DID NOT WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND NEITHER DID HE. IT LASTED FOR A YEAR AND A HALF TILL HIS JOB TOOK HIM TO FLORIDA. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH IT AS LONG AS YOU USE PROTECTION AND BOTH PARTIES ARE IN AGREEMENT, WITH NO STRINGS ATTACHED. HAPPY HUNTING!!!! (I'M HAPPILY MARRIED NOW)

Answer 11

I think once you have sex you have made a commitment, and there are so many diseases around these days that carry a death sentence i for one are not willing to take that risk for a little enjoyment.