my best friends brother is always flirting with me and touching me and i really like him but i don't know how my best friend is going to react what do i do?
2006-12-01 18:55:09 · 15 answers · asked by ghetto fabolous 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you really like him i think you must make the first step. Flirt with him so yhat he can see that you like him and then he will do the rest of the job( i think)... or if you are courage enough just tell him that u like him and what are his feeling about you... good luck!!
2006-12-01 19:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Alex A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what kind of person your best friend is. But from experienc i can say that its a BIG no no! u won't be able to have a real relationship as u have to spend time with both u will most likely lose ur best friend
2006-12-01 18:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Francis s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One touch leads to another and a much closer contact, has he crossed a comfort zone with his touching or words? You are the one who set's the boundary marks for him, consider where each move may be leading to and where he want's you to follow. remember, you mark the spot where the stop sign starts until you give the signal for him to go. once the move inward has been made the relationship changes, be careful.
2006-12-01 19:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Conway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like him, ask your best friend if its ok to be with him. If your best friend is fine with it, then go ahead cos your best friend gave you her/his blessing to be with him. But if she/he says no, then stop yourself, make sure you tell your best friends brother to stop flirting with you too cos your friendship with your best friend is at stake. Remember girl.. boys come and go.. but best friends are forever. I'm sorry if I sound SO Paris Hilton with her new Best Friends Forever (BFF), Britney Spears lol. But I hope you know what I mean.. Goodluck!
2006-12-01 19:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by *~liYana~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kind of depends, does your best friend like or dislike her brother. Like does she ever say how annoying he is or how he never shuts up. or does she talk good about him and how hes so helpful?
2006-12-01 18:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by ian s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eeeeyuckkk... when going out with two guys at the same time, at least have the decency to pick non brothers.
Maybe he just idolize both of you guys and just want to be part of the group.
2006-12-01 18:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
is your best friend male or female if you like him go for it unless he is leading you up the garden path and if she is female why should she worry about you having a relationship with her brother????
2006-12-01 18:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by cvtm2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so if hes single why not
lol
im dating my best freinds brother lol and it makes it for fun actually
See your freind more
she may think its cool never know till you ask
2006-12-01 19:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are still eligible and mature enough, I think it is a healthy things.
2006-12-01 18:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Bright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u sure he's flirting? it will be awkward if u confront him n he deny it.....just.....do nothing n see what happens, if he makes a move, theeeen....you say sorry dude
2006-12-01 18:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by kempret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋