Well me and my girlfriend had broken up and we were together for 9 months,and now she always feels like **** when she thinks about how she was not my first to have sex,cuz ive done it wit like 3 other ppl but only like 4 times and idk what to say to her. to make her feel better
2006-12-01 18:52:57 · 7 answers · asked by roy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's your ex girlfriend - I wouldn't worry about it.
If you are still friends- tell her it happened before her - and tell her that those "didn't count"...that you consider her to be your first.
2006-12-04 04:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Matt isn't a chum and Erinne replaced into under no circumstances the lady you theory she replaced into. They the two used you in way and this is unforgiven,. Karma will set them the two in the present day yet as a manner to circulate you're able to desire to forgive them the two for not understanding to any extent further suitable and thank them for doing you a desire. think of in case you married Erinne and she or he slept with each guy she might desire to. how many cases might you forgive her and she or he do an identical in return? i think of you have been extra in love along with her and not any opposite direction around. existence is going on kiddo and you will meet somebody some day which will make your coronary heart flutter and whispers your call each waking hour. people do issues we are able to under no circumstances understand yet with those 2 you deserve a extra suitable chum and significant other. So go away them interior the previous and circulate in direction of your destiny. god velocity bro.
2016-12-10 20:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by mckinzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell her how if you had meant her and she had already had sex it would not have bothered you any. Make her feel good about herself even if she is not a virgin anymore. Let her know how it would not have bothered you if she wasn't your first. Also let her know that your and her relationship had alot of meaning in it and it was not a fly by night fling. Let her know you still now and will always respect her.
2006-12-01 18:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey look it's not ur flut thatshe is not ur fisrt tell her u couldn't controle ur self.
and say that u and she ahad a past which should be respceted not being back at u.
am sure she had a bf bf4 u i don't think u'll ask her right.
s why is she all grumpy andtell her that ur ahvoing sex now so it doesn't matter.
2006-12-01 18:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i understand your gf because im like that too to my bf.i hate thinking that i wasn't the first but i slowly accept it because he truly loves me.just show to her how much u love her.
2006-12-01 19:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by Felicity 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you and if she is your ex why do you ask this question
grow up
2006-12-01 18:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by cvtm2003 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't so get over it or her
2006-12-01 18:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by proud of it 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋