well theres this guy and we like each other for the longest time so he finally got the guts to ask for my number so we started talking and he tells me he realy likes me but the problem is he has a girlfriend and i think he know i know shes in college but my friend says they been having alot of problems there always fighting i dont know what to do im do confused what if he askes me out
2006-12-01 18:49:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From my experience i can tell you that you should cross him off your list. If he just got your number then maybe he is waiting to see what happens to his relationship then ur second option. Thats what it seems like at the moment. Or there is the possibility of him cheating on you and his GF. U said u liked each other for the longest time? if he actually did he would have done something about it rather than waiting to get into fights with his GF to have a change of heart.
2006-12-01 18:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Francis s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an easy one. You tell him that you will not go out with him until he breaks up with his girlfriend. Thats the way it has to be. Do you really want to have to worry or stress about some girl you don't know finding out your dating her boyfriend and causing drama. If he really likes you he will dump her and then get with you. That way your in the clean, no guilt, no worries. Do you want to deal with him getting calls from her and having to lie all the time. It'll be better for both of you just to do it the right way. Because if he would date you while he's having trouble in a relationship with her. Then if he has trouble in the relationship with you, what do you think he will do? Repeat his behavior and have another chick on the side. I'm just saying, its your life, do as you see fit.
2006-12-01 18:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by HOVO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he make it clear that he likes you? Do you really like him? Did he say he would split with her to be with you? Did you ask him if he would end it with her? Maybe he wants to know first that you are interested in him before he goes & dumps her.I say,,go for it but be sure to tell him that you do not share so he will have to end it with her first. He obviously is interested or he wouldnt have even called you.
2006-12-01 19:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you were that girl he was already seeing? You should remember that if he is willing to mess around with you behind her back, then when you two hook up, he will no doubt be doing the same thing with you eventually...
If he were genuinely interested and sincere, he would break it off with her before he pursues anything with you.
2006-12-01 18:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Don A. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him know that you dont want to talk to him unless he is single. because you dont want to be in the middle or a bad relationship between his gf and him. He shouldn't be even talking to you if he has a gf. Tell him Call me when your single. I know you like him but why would you want to be with someone who is doing that to his gf. would you want him talking to another girl in a flirty way if you were his gf. He needs to figure out what he is doing.
2006-12-01 18:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you trust him to be honest with you i would just ask him. I would tell him you heard he is in a relationship with another girl , and hope that he tells you the truth on it. Maybe he was just dating someone a bit you never know until you ask.
2006-12-01 18:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by sammy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um, tell him u no about his gf and that he wil have 2 decide between the 2 of u because u wont stand him cheating on u or the other girl
2006-12-01 18:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by funny.bones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how the other girl feels.. and how u would feel if you were in her shoes.. you should just forget about this guy. if he is really interested in you.. he wouldn't hold on to his girlfriend.. this just shows that if u dont accept his date .. he still has got his gf to fall back on.. what a jerk..
2006-12-01 18:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead .. I doubt if they are in a bad shape the relationship wont last long
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2006-12-01 18:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ugh. He has a girlfriend, don't hang on him. If he really likes you and wants to be with you he will dump his girlfriend and not string you on.
2006-12-01 18:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋