0k theres this beautiful girl at my school and i really want to talk to her but Im probably one the shyest kids you'll ever find and Ive tried asking my friends of how i can "come out of my shell" and none of it has worked so far so im using this site as a last resort
im in the 8th grade by the way
plz hellp i dont want to be a loser when i get to high school
2006-12-01 18:37:27 · 3 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, first, it's ok to be shy. And it may take a while to get out of it. But that doesn't mean you can't talk to her. If you have classes with her just dont stare at her or anything. Just act normal and if the chance ever comes up, talk to her. Even if it's just small talk. (example: oh ****, a test, I forgot) Over time just keep talking to her like that. It will help boost your confidence too. This will also help you see if her personality is good too under that beauty. If she's nice, she will talk to you. If she tries to ignore you, she's a ***** and you need to forget about her. I'm in 10th grade, don't worry, being in relationships isn't the most important thing. An if your not a nerd, you will get a girlfriend. Most guys will get a girl in high school, so your covered ;)
I hope I helped!
2006-12-01 18:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by amkramer642 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) First of all, what are u shy of ...
U've got to alwez keep in mind that being a guy u'r the one whu'z gatta make the first move ... Just take a deep breath & say it out.
Girls go fer assertive guys ...
Don't waste yr time so that someone else grabs the chance ...
2006-12-02 02:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Maya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to people who u dont know really well and start talking to more people. The more u talk the less shy u ge and when u finally talk to her u well be yourself
2006-12-02 03:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋