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the easy answer is no but what if the change is for the better? do u still go ahead even though it makes u uncomfortable?

2006-12-01 18:13:42 · 13 answers · asked by Star 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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if you're in a relationship, change is inevitable! you both must make compromises in order to achieve peace and rhythm in your lives.

2006-12-01 18:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0 0

Ya wanna know what? The funny thing is, is that everyone tells you NEVER to change for anyone else. HOWEVER....once you meet someone worth the change? it's no work at all. On top of that? They'll be changing the whole time too! It's called EVOLVING!!! It's wonderful and beautiful and amazing and most of all AMAZING!!!! If you are willing its natural! If you are forced it isn't meant to be. Keep that in mind.
Don't forget, its always going to be a little uneasy and feel a little unnatural at first, but just like learning to do anything, it's usually worth it in the end.

Good luck and good memories to you,

XOXO MeLissa

2006-12-01 18:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It will not be easy to change one's habits or personality.Cos thats the way we are.We are all different people but its worth giving it a try since u already said change for the better.All the best!

2006-12-01 19:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by confused 1 · 0 0

If the change is improving yourself and you want to make that change for yourself then its fine. But you should never change yourself for anyone else. Besides you could always end up blaming that person for being unhappy since you didn't want to change. If its unhealthy or destructive you can't really say thats for him it should be for you.If someone loves you they wont ask you to change

2006-12-01 18:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

properly you're certainly shy and you will possibly consistently be that way. yet you could be a splash extra sociable basically attempt and get people on a a million on a million foundation and ask them a team of questions approximately them self people like to speak approximately themselves for some reason it style of feels to coach which you're extra interested in them as extra effective than in undemanding terms a wave at you whilst passing via till now you recognize it your being certainly kinda quiet will make people think of you're fairly listening to what they're saying and persons will prefer to speak to you alot extra i know i'm an identical way in a lot of approaches as you I do exactly like that different individual reported so which you will do step out component my convenience zone or perhaps even though if it fairly is uncomfortable attempt to speak to people as much as i will manage.and while you're talking to somebody for a metamorphosis and your hardly communicate because of the fact of your voice factor then perhaps that individual will experience like they're particular which you're talking to them above absolutely everyone else fantastically once you're making a factor to ask them stuff approximately them self.

2016-12-10 20:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by mckinzie 4 · 0 0

we all change in some way all the time , if the change is for the better then that is good for you and them .

2006-12-01 18:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by beefcowsboy 2 · 0 0

YES, this happened to me before. Change myself in terms of change to the better. If u see him happy u will happy. No matter wat is the price u pay for (ofcoz it shld be a positive on). If u are talking abt in a R/S i believe one has to step in and another shld step out. There is no perfect in this world.. we have to compromise and give in and out accordingly.

2006-12-03 14:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0 0

never never never change for anyone to prove anything. yea its OK to change if its doing good to your personality . cuz later on when you will look back you ll feel stupid if you did change and got nothing good from it.

2006-12-01 18:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by gaina 1 · 0 0

No, if he/she does not like you for who you are. Then save yourself the effort and leave him/her. Go for a relationship that will make both parties happy and ofcourse, comfortable.

2006-12-01 18:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by curious~me 3 · 0 0

Never change for another,,do it for you if you choose to do so.

2006-12-01 18:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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