Am I wrong to slap him? When we get into arguments he would verbally abuse me. Say things to make me feel low about everything. Then after awhile he started hitting himself. There were times when I could control it but it gotten to a point that nothing I do helped him or I. We were arguing so bad over somethign so small that I just couldn't take it anymore. He was saying things that didn't make sense. He was making me feel guilty, accusing me or doing something. But how can I when we are always together. He would get mad because I miss a call from him. When I call back I tell him what happened. But he never believed me... is that something to get mad about?
2006-12-01 17:40:44 · 13 answers · asked by lala15 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How would you feel if he did the same to you? Would you call the police and report him for assault? If so, count your blessings that he hasn't done the same to you. And you will be lucky if he ever wants anything to do with you again. OH! And you're also lucky he didn't slap you back.
2006-12-01 17:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like u r both young and maybe a little immature. ur bf appears to be a little insecure and thats y he is getting mad when u miss a call from him. have u given him a reason to feel insecure or jealous? if not then it is his issue that he needs to deal with. violence is never a good solution to any problem but if u r fighting over insignificant stuff i can understand y one might resort to an act of violence out of frustration. if u r both sure u want to pursue this relationship i think u should both have a good long heart to heart chat and maybe even seek some relationship counselling
2006-12-01 17:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, on account that whilst did 2 incorrect make a ideal, he don't have slapped you and you mustn't have slept with yet another guy. 2d, to try this in front of your human beings, you at the instant have witnesses to his habit. 0.33, his action shows the potential of destiny abuse. ultimately sooner or later, it quite is assuming you the two have a destiny mutually, situations like this or any others that arise could be pronounced in inner maximum, no longer in front of human beings, nor could it incorporate violence of any variety. there is in no way a valid reason at the back of violence, neither is there any valid reason to communicate your inner maximum existence in front of human beings. If I have been you, i might wreck off this relationship till the two one in all you're mature sufficient to handle a real relationship. because it appears that evidently neither of you have reached that time on your lives. there is not any excuse on the face of the earth for a guy to slap or hit a girl, it replaced into basically his option to achieve this, what share extra cases will he choose to slap or hit somebody sooner or later? you have the "boy" area ideal as a results of fact he isn't any guy. existence is approximately possibilities we, as somebody chooses to make, his decision replaced into to strengthen his hand to a distinctive person, it quite is incorrect no remember the placement.
2016-10-17 14:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this kind of verbal and physical abuse is just plain wrong. look deeply into your relationship to see if there are any good things about it and if they outweigh the bad. still, the confrontations and friction and sheer volatility of your relationship with your bf should make you question whether there is a future there for the two of you. you should go into couples therapy or try to communicate in a calmer, open and honest way -- no games.
2006-12-01 17:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lala: You are in a sick relationship with a sick boyfriend, who instead of bringing the best out in you, is bringing out the worst in you !!! You slapped him because of the build-up of frustration and vented it with a volley of slaps to his face. Can you image being married to one another ? !!! Your boyfriend has issues - BIG time and you are with him. Get out and away from him before YOU are on the receiving end of a hard placed right fist to the head. It's all a matter of time before "push" leads to "shove" !! This is not love ... no ... no ... no .. !!! This is abuse ... plain and simple. Dump him and stay away. Good luck to you, "lala" !!!
2006-12-01 17:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wht i can say is u must have broken his trust once thats y he behave this way
for a guy when a girl turns wrong she will always be wrong
he loves u thats y he wants u
but coz u broke his trust once that can never be regained
so he is always gone be like this
the best for u guys is to be done with it
finish it coz u guys will keep on hurtin each other
always
i am sorry tahts the only thing u guys can do ab cheers
2006-12-01 17:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you two are arguing to the point of what you have told us, this is a train wreck waiting to happen. WHY???? would you want to be with someone like this. Get out now...
No boy is worth crying over...
And the one who is WON'T make you cry.....
2006-12-01 17:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never hit him. It's just as bad if a girl does it. You have no right and it's assault.
2006-12-02 00:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by carmen (I'm a girl dammit!) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hitting is not good..
arguing over silly things is also not good. i think you should take some time to reflect and reassess your relationship. maybe things aren't working out and it may be best to break up.
2006-12-01 17:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what you should do is stop aguing before something small turns into something big
just walk away and cool off for a few minutes and make up later.
2006-12-01 17:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by program dude 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋