I really like my gf but I don't think our relationship is goin anywhere. She only hugs me when her friends tell her to. I walked passed her at school when she was talkin wit her friend. She acted like I wasn't there, I tried to say high to her but all I did was say hi to her friend instead. Should I break up wit her? If yes, then can you do me a favor and tell me what to say to her without breakin her feelings?
2006-12-01 17:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by killerdudeko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your girlfriend sounds a little like my ex boyfriend; at first our relationship was great, but after awhile he stopped calling, wouldn't visit me, and made a lot of excuses. First I would talk to her, and say something like, "I really care about you, but it seems like you've been a little distant lately. Is everything ok?" If she has a valid reason for ignoring you, maybe you can work something out. If not, I would recommend breaking up with her; she might feel badly, but she obviously isn't putting enough time into the relationship. You can pretty much tell her that, but put it into nicer terms, such as, "It seems like you have a lot going on lately, and we haven't been communicating as well or hanging out as much. Maybe we should take some time off." Hopefully this helps.
2006-12-01 17:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 01:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by kobielnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like she doesn't have much feelings for her anyway, so I'm sure she wouldn't be too heartbroken if you break up. Just go up to her and say she doesn't show that she even cares about you and that you're breaking up. Just do it and be done with it.
By the way, she's not your gf, she's your girlfriend.
2006-12-01 17:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't be afraid just tell her if you think you are doin the right thing tell her you don't like the way she acts and that she is making you feel bad let her know how you feel say some thing to her or you will Regret it tell her this is how you made it so take it back i want some one that will teat me right
2006-12-01 17:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Felicia C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, in any relationship you have to use communication, and you can't run from that. If you have weak communication in one relationship, you will have it in the next if you don't try. If you really like her--- then why would you break up? talk to her about this, I think she definetly likes you but is just very shy, and a little immature.
2006-12-01 17:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, tell your sorry but you dont feel a connection a bond of being in love, like showing the world your affection you like but as a friend because the affection that you getting is more of as her friend not lover so you ask to be friends.
2006-12-01 17:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Killer, It sounds like she likes her friends better. Just go up to her,and tell her that you don't think she likes you anymore.Maybe it would be a good ideal to go our separate ways. Then just walk away.
Clowmy
2006-12-01 17:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude ou ain't gonna break her heart 'cause she does not seem to care about you that much,what would do is just tell her i'm sorry it's not working out the way it supposed to be and i don't want to make you lose your time,it'd be better for us just to be friends....and then you'll see if she ever felt something meaningful for you!!
2006-12-01 17:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by GMORAM29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her a find a girl who really likes you.
2006-12-01 17:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by mss_lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should break up with her and from what you just said you wont hurt her feelings. she will be a drama queen for a while but will be for show
2006-12-01 17:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by rockydriver22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋