I like this girl a lot that goes to my school. But she doesnt feel the sameway about me. I want to get over her but i cant.
2006-12-01 17:06:59 · 14 answers · asked by esand15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had the same exact problem as u
the only thing u can try to do is start liking some1 else and forget about her
as some1 once told me when i asked this "there are other fish in the sea"
2006-12-01 17:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by ggtightend 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new girl, it's over you just don't know it. And, besides women seem to take more notice when someone is taken. Like "I wonder what she has that he likes so much that I don't". Move on, she probably will too whether you do or not. Everyone is different she might like the real you. All I know is I spent eight years in the situation you are in and I bought her roses and stuff fo rher b-day because sh ewas nice to me as a kid when girls were usually just my friends. The most she ever gave back to me for all teh stuff I did for her was a thank you once. So try, but don't spend a lifetime waiting on one woman who has made her intentions clear when there are 50,000 more just around the corner who might be interested in you. Love takes work.But it should be the kind of work you enjoy and would never give up for anything.
2006-12-01 17:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know what I'm in the same situation and the only thing that gets my mind off her is to do something which is really challenging or very fun. Hanging around friends might help but sometimes they just remind u of the girl u like. its sucks but just try to move on and it will take time its been a month for me and I still cant move on. Hey at least u didnt get rejected like I did. good luck
2006-12-01 17:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over any sort of rejection; believe me, I know from experience. Hang out with your friends, take up a new activity, work on your video game skills, anything that makes you happy. Eventually the hurt should begin to fade, as you occupy your time with other things. Talking to someone you trust also may make things better. If none of this helps, therapy may be an option.
2006-12-01 17:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend was just recently in the same position! You need to lay off of girls for a while. Treat yourself to something fun that you like to do. Focus on something other than girls for a while. Hang out with close friends to get your mind off her. Do something really fun that you've always wanted to do! Soon your mind will be on things 10x more important. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-01 17:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Katie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is "time". The heart wants what the heart wants.. but if you spend a lot of time with her and you desperately want to get over her may I recomend simply distancing yourself from her for a time. Your heart will move on, and if it doesn't then pursue the hell out her til she gives in ;)
2006-12-01 17:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by myanonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bud....what's up....My name is Jeff ...wow..I went thru the same thing when I was in school.....there was this girl in my class....I swear she was sent by an angle....just hearing her voice made me melt inside....it's amazing the affect a woman can have on us....as strong as whe are...well....the best advise that I can give is to become a friend to her....let her get to know you....the true you ....not the you you'd think she'd like....but don't let on your true feelings for her unless you start getting the response that your hoping for cause you just mite scare her away...who knows....once she gets to know you....her feelings about you mite change.....you never know...It worked for me.....but the funny thing is....once we started dating and I truly got to know her...I couldn't stand her....she was really bossy and pushy....a side of her I never knew existed till I really got to know her....ain't that a flip....well....good luck....just remember....there are alto of woman in this world and your going to feel that way about most of them...your young yet.....take it from me...it's going to get worse (not terrible) but it does get better....good luck
2006-12-01 17:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by Shelley N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to get over someone fast is to find someone else to like... i'm serious... try anything else and it won't work.. you'll be miserable no matter what if you really like this girl...... so go out, meet up with new people, and find someone more interesting, more funny, more loveable.
and trust me on this, there are hundreds of such girls..... you just have to be patient.
good luck.
2006-12-01 17:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't feel the same way about you, just be grateful you are not left confused. sometimes it may take awhile to sink in, but one day you'll realise that its not going to happen. It's ok to keep thinking about her, just be careful that when you do meet someone knew, look to like =)
2006-12-01 17:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by {««мα∂gυу»»} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring her a rose or something. I`m sure they like that. If not, then ask her why she doesn`t feel the same?
2006-12-01 17:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by wanna b me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋