Its always been a problem that I face constantly everyday. I dont think it really matters. But when I date some how they always ask me. I dont think I put it out that I'm a virgin, it just comes out. Sometimes I feel like I could be experienced a little bit more. I know its my choice but is it really peer pressure or is it just my turn?
2006-12-01 17:03:40 · 33 answers · asked by Braden M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I respect you that you have been a virgin for so long. Don't give into peer pressure. You'll know when your time is right and with the right person. Save yourself for that special someone. Don't it give to some random girl.
2006-12-01 17:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by JenGen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thoughts you have are faced by every single human being. Some go through this early in life and some much later. It's not a matter of the age but a matter of maturity.
It's actually quite easy to tell who is virgin and who is not (which everybody who has watched "The 40 Year Old Virgin" can attest to).
My sense is that you worry too much about it. Keep doing what you do, maybe show a little more self confidence, ignore peer pressure, and you should be fine.
2006-12-01 17:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ivan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a guy who didn't lose his virginity until he was 21, it's really not that big of a deal to still be a virgin at your age. Don't put so much pressure on yourself and don't let anyone else pressure you, either.
Don't get me wrong, sex is great. When the time is right, it'll happen.
The bad news is, and I hate to break it to you, but everyone's first time sucks. What's important is that you have a partner that is understanding, and patient above all else.
I'm not saying you should neccessarily wait until you're head over heels in love with that person, but you should wait until you find someone you can trust completely. Just take it slow, and everything will be fine.
2006-12-01 17:36:27 · answer #3 · answered by randomthoughtpatterns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS GOOD! im a virgin too, and i was brought up that if your not married dont have sex. its all just peer preasure, every commerical u see says have safe sex, but thats not the right way to do it. people need to learn that there will be less problems in the long run if u dont have sex until ur married. think about it, there is so much crisis in the world today including STD's, babies being aborted for something THEY(the baby) didnt even do wrong. i think its wonderful that u are a virgin. dont have sex when ur not married, u want it to be special for ur 1st time! Personally i would ONLY marry a virgin God Bless You!
2006-12-01 17:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by ○HiD○ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't bad. Sex is an intimate experience that should not be undertaken because of peer pressure. It's your turn when you meet the right person. I wonder why people will insist that they won't let anyone else tell them what to wear or what music to like etc. but when it comes to something this personal they care what other people think the "should" do.
2006-12-01 17:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by strgoddss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its great that you are a virgin, I stayed a virgin until I was 19 I know it might not sound like a huge accomplishment but to me it was because ALL my friends and everyone I ever met were sexually active...I initially wanted to wait till marriage, but I fell in love and things happened!! I am happy to say that the guy I lost it to is my soon to be husband.
Don't let anyone make you feel bad for your choice in waiting, any classy lady will love it!
its not like you would want to attract sluts!
2006-12-01 17:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by mcm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definately peer pressure.
Actually it's a Good thing that you are still pure in that way!!
Think of all the regrets you will not have.
To the right kind of person, it will be a quality to admire and respect!!
2006-12-01 17:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by 4263 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't think you should be peer pressure at this... i think it's good that your a virgin...it's your choice and it's up too you... and you should always like first person the special one... because you can't forget her...
2006-12-01 17:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this a problem? There is nothing wrong with waiting until you're ready. If a girl likes you for you it shouldn't matter if you're a virgin or not. If you want to wait then more power to you. I respect that.
2006-12-01 17:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As one 22 year old virgin to another I say just wait til it is right for you man. I am 22 as well, but i have actually met the right person and we decided last month to take that step. She was willing and supportive enough to wait for me and for me to be ready. I hope you can find someone who will be that for you :)
2006-12-01 17:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by myanonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋