ok Im 18 and have a baby already...its hard to find a guy to date now since I'm still young and have a baby is there anyway that I can get guys to like me and like my daughter as well?
2006-12-01 16:56:34 · 4 answers · asked by LeAnn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its possible, but it will be hard.
Sad thing is that I am in the same situation though. But from my experience with my last g/g. you have to find some one that is one your level. Meaning someone that has a child, or someone that loves children.
But honey please, men should not be the first thing on your mind, your daughter should be. You will have her when there is no one else. She is the one that you should be trying to build a relationship. But dont be discouraged at all, there are plenty of good men out here that love children, and personally I believe that men love the fact of having a daughter, a little princess. You have to be patient, very patient. Pray to God, and one day the person that you want will come to you. What ever you do now, from this point on will have an impact in the life of your child, make sure the men that you find respect you as well as your daughter, dont have sex, get to know them, but dont get to know their johnson. Dont let your daughter see that, or even think that mommy was giving it up. She is the next generation and we need our children to be better than what we were right??? We live in a society where sex sells only to make us miserable people with insecurities and babies before we were ready.
Some women thin kthat a way is to get a guy is to look sexy, wrong!!! The way to get a guy, or at least a good guy, is to present yourself with uniqueness, class and character. Show him that you are more than a pretty face, hips and ****. Show him that yuo respect yourself, and he will respect you. I gurantee it.
2006-12-01 17:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on focusing on your daughter and the man thing will eventually fall into place.
You are very young, and many men aren't ready until at least their late 20s (some not until their late 30s early 40s) to commit to a child. Always get to know the guy a little bit first before allowing him around your kid (you don't want her to get hurt...physically or emotionally).
And don't settle. If they don't like her, move on.
2006-12-02 01:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by contemplating 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LeAnn,
Never try to get a guy to first like you and your child ...... it's too over whelming with the fragile male ego...... First find a guy who has the same feelings of family, values and you enjoy. If he loves you ... he will love your child.
Remember your now choosing a mate as well as a male role model for your little one. Be careful & choose well.
Florida is nice this time of year ......
2006-12-02 01:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be concentrating on your daughter, not guys. That's what got you in the situation you're in.
2006-12-02 01:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋