I like older women, but is it normal to have these feelings about them.
I prefer classy, mature women to teen girls my age.
I find girls my age to be selfish, manipulative, and pure heartbreakers. They also tend to worry about what other people say and some that i've met are pretty stupid.
I mean there probably are girls my age that are mature, but i have yet to find them.
2006-12-01 16:48:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Albert, I just hope you don't find yourself getting into something that's over your head.A 20 year old woman that's okay,but a 35 year old woman,there's a red flag there.She is looking for something.It maybe she wants a younger lover to make her feel young again,or there maybe an entirely different reason.Be careful with the older ones like this.You never know what your into before it's to late.
Clowmy
2006-12-01 17:01:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's normal. so i hope, anyways. i just turned 20 last month and i'm currently deployed in iraq. i had a ex fiance for about 3 years. i was true and faithful, never once thought about other women. anyhow she called it quits do to being in different states and me being deployed what not. found out 3 weeks later she had a new boyfriend (slut). anyhow we was both the same age and now that im single im looking for someone of which is in the late 20's. it's just hard finding someone that actually wants a younger guy. it's easy if it's just a fling bling, but for an actual relationship that you want to enhance. well, you better find a women with kids. lol
2006-12-01 17:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes older women are more appealing because they are more mature and experienced in the ways of the world. but if you are only 17, i would put those feelings on hold for awhile. here's why.
when i was younger, i used to be just like you. i was attracted to older women. when i was 25, i was sort of dating a woman who was 46. we had great sex but we weren't compatible as a couple. after we got past the physical part, she started acting like a mother rather than a girlfriend. after her, i dated many other older women and what i learned was older women will eventually seek out someone closer to their own age after the physical part is done. they don't want to be embaressed by the fact that they are dating a guy closer to their son's age than her.
2006-12-01 17:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to fantasize about robbing the grave, go ahead. But for any 20 to 35 year old woman to respond to your feelings is against the law since you are still considered a minor at the age of 17. The woman could be prosecuted for statutory rape.
2006-12-01 16:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by rosey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are at their best between 35 and 45. By that time they know everything. So to a novice like you they act as teachers. They demand, and get what they really want. And you faithfully perform as asked.
So the equation is perfect. Enjoyment and bliss for both sides.
2006-12-01 18:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by RD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably u r the mom's boy and have had no sister or if u had one, she was harsh towards u. Secondly older women enjoy sex with boys who have just acquired the power/tool to have sex. Materially they will not be demanding but providing. They are ok for fun and acquiring experience but not for long term relationship as they will be complaining of various kinds of ailments while u will be at the prime of ur youth and bubbling with sexual urges and energy.
2006-12-01 16:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one in a million. Congrats! This is a good thing being that you are mature for your age. But be careful finding a 30ish woman that wants to date a 17yr old. Something is seriously wrong with that....unless you're a millionaire.
2006-12-01 16:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by paigeamj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some guys that are like you, they like older girls..it's normal because you think you are over mature... but i think you should try to find a girl around your age that is mature... if you look for them, then you will find them....
2006-12-01 16:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless you my child! Find yourself a college girl at least to see if you like them better than the high schoolers. If they still seem immature, then go for the kind of woman you like, when you are of legal age so she doesn't get arrested. Best of luck to you!
2006-12-01 16:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
As a female, I've liked guys in their late-20s since I was 12. I still don't think I could date someone my age.
The silliness will pass (or if you get to know one of them better -- away from their friends) that might help too.
2006-12-01 16:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by contemplating 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋