There is a friend of mine who is a girl I like alot (i've known her for a while). Today we were talking, and she mentioned how the only guys who liked her were "Drunken Hicks". I, being far from an alchoholic and a swimmer, mentioned how it wasn't true. still, she persisted how all her boyfriends were crazy, drunk, etc. so I told her again that it wasn't true, and I mentioned that I wasn't a drunk, or crazy. she didn't seem to notice the question (there were others around, by the way), and the subject ended.
so... does she like me, or not?
2006-12-01 16:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by Peta Chips 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way, I am a swimmer, if my wording sounded wierd. I am not an alchoholic, and I am a swimmer.
2006-12-01 16:48:28 · update #1
She sounds like the type that doesnt feel comfortable talking about stuff like that infront of other people. You should try talking to her about it alone. She may like you just need to actually come out and tell her. Im sure she probably catches your drift but doesnt feel comfortable being the one to start up the conversation about likeing each other.
2006-12-01 16:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by baby_cakes_2758 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jedi: As long as you aren't swimming laps in the beer vat, I would say she is "sizing" you up and waiting to see how you respond to her. She likes you ... but has a message hidden in her statement to you. She may like "bad" boys, who are crazy and get drunk. Even if you don't do these things, she could be your catch of the day. Play your cards right and she will be yours. Ask her to try someone different to be with - YOU and watch her response. This should get you the feedback you are searching for. Good luck to you "jedi" !!!
2006-12-01 16:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't make a move YET. maybe she sees you as the "friend" type... ya know the guy who is just there. if you DO try and she rejects you, you might ruin the friendship.
maybe you can casually invite her somewhere with you (man this kickass movie is playing and i don't wanna go alone, wanna come with... we can sneak in candy... wanna?) and see if she says YES... if she does than see how she acts on your outing. is she standoffish... shy... ya know. maybe that'll give you more insight into how she feels about you. give her the opportunities to see you more and hang out more. see if she goes along with it or if she pushes you away. then it'll be obvious.
2006-12-01 16:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by smartie_pantalones 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SEE IF SHE TOLD THAT SHE Doesn'T LIKE DRUNKERS AND U Don't DRINK ITS A POSITVE POINT ..BUT Don't JUST REALLY ON THIS AND SHOW UR QUALITIES RATHER THEN TELLING IT WOULD BE LIKE BOASTING.... SHE SHOULD FEEL U ..UR A SWIMMER IF SHE Doesn't KNOW U SHOULD TEACH HER NEW SKILLS AND BEST WAY TOUCH HER AND MAKE HER FEEL BUT AT FIRST DO IT WITH DECENSY...
2006-12-01 16:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by Aman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She likes you. She was "testing the waters". You need to be very clear with how you feel. Ask her out for a date!!
2006-12-01 16:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you just SAY IT? If she did notice, she was probably waiting for you to just spill it out! "I LIKE YOU!" (That, or she could be just messing with your head.)
2006-12-01 16:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe she does not see you as suitable dating material.
2006-12-01 17:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋