Apparentaly my girlfriend was in Maui for a week, and she met this guy there. They were flirting, and she hung out with him every day... They exchanged phone numbers to keep in touch. She goes to Maui four times a year, should I be at all worried about this? I am bawling right now, not sure whether or not to trust her... Please help!
2006-12-01 16:39:54 · 14 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Btw, she goes to Maui for vacation
2006-12-01 16:41:43 · update #1
She didn't tell me, I found out through one of her friends...
2006-12-01 16:42:47 · update #2
But she will only see him for less than a month each year, if that, and she didn't do really do anything with him...
2006-12-01 16:43:50 · update #3
This is not what I wanted to hear... :-(
2006-12-01 16:45:31 · update #4
I mean, should I be worried that she was flirting with another guy when she was in Maui? They didn't really do anything, I am thinking the two of them are friends... He doesn't even live in Maui either, he lives in Arizona...
2006-12-01 17:59:02 · update #5
I don't want to make things worse, but I think she is cheating on you. Exchanging phone numbers to keep "in touch"? Please. Maybe you should try going with her to Maui. Maybe you should just talk to her about it. I mean, it's better to be safe than sorry.
2006-12-01 16:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a really nice guy, which is rare.
My experience says you should move on.
Sad but true: where theres smoke, theres fire.
She's not cutting you loose until she's sure the Hawaii thing is cemented.
That way if it doesn't pan out, she still has you.
Cut her loose, in 6 months when she comes back & she will.
You will have moved on and she will be a distant memory.
Let her find someone else to use, life is too short to play mind games.
2006-12-01 17:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Micha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy will kill a relationship faster than anything, You can't control what another person is going to do, You can only control Your reaction to the problem, I might worried if she is talking to him at odd times or is trying to hide it from you, But if it's out in the open then she's is more than likely not doing anything shady.
Best thing to do is just ask her about him, And let her know how that make's you feel, And just ask her if the shoe was on the other foot how would she feel.
2006-12-01 17:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by harry p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably cheating. Dump her. Find a girl that "Maui-less"
2006-12-01 16:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that if your girlfriend is going to be a flirt then dont waste your time biting your nails over it...I wouldnt ask her if anything was going on because her response would most likley be "no"
end it now before you get in way to deep with her and move on.
2006-12-01 16:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by none y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to talk. Sitting around wondering what's going on is not going to help you. Also...you need to get on it now, because the longer you wait, the worse it could get. So...stop bawling and handle it!
2006-12-01 17:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think you should worry she isnt right for you tell her it is either the maui guy or you not both
keep your chin up boy
2006-12-01 16:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by confused 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they seem to close for friends
2006-12-01 16:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by Just Some Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey c0me visit me and we can flirt and hang 0ut everyday. i'll give y0u my ph0ne number. see if she likes that!
2006-12-01 16:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by sexypunkgrrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust your girlfriend dump her
2006-12-01 16:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋