The father of my child/boyfriend just got into a fist fight with my father. It just happend about 20 minutes ago. Now I am going to be torn in between this altercation. What should I do please help!!!!
2006-12-01 16:33:56 · 13 answers · asked by chloerochelle102887 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My father pushed my boyfriend first and then it all escalated from there. They took my dad to jail for assault
2006-12-01 16:39:48 · update #1
wow, just keep on feeling what you feel. If you feel neutral do that. Don't let anyone change your mind. You do care for them right? so then if they care for you, they'd let you be free and wouldn't pressure you to pick sides.
2006-12-01 16:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until they cool off because the adrenaline is still rushing through their bodies. Then try and figure out why the fight happened in the first place. Hopefully after this they can talk it out if not this is going to be a problem because verbal fights are different than physical fights.
2006-12-02 00:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by c3r3c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did your father push your boyfriend,
was he about to abuse you or your child ?
Were the two of you in your fathers house ? or was
your father in you/bf house ? You can't take sides...
If you all don't live together, try to keep them apart
until things cool down - then try to talk to the one
with the cooler head & try to make peace - good luck
2006-12-02 00:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by trebor2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is way over the line but no matter what, your boyfriend has no right to fist fight with your father. That is disrespectful to you. You should really evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend.
2006-12-02 00:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you on the computer right now ?
In my opinion , blood is thicker than water .Men come and go ,your Dad will not live forever .
2006-12-02 00:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who was right? There is your answer. Somehow I get the feeling it was your dad who probably wanted your friend to make it legal.
2006-12-02 01:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by devora k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, tht sux, how bout u get em drunk and put em in a pin, who evr comes out victorious wins ur heart, haha im tryin to lighten the spirit
2006-12-02 00:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by HO HO HO, Merry Christmas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk things out with them when they are calm. you must know the circimstances you were there, what was the fight about, was your father justified, maybe he was protecting you, was your bf protecting himself, use the judgement God gave you
2006-12-02 01:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by luxyfoxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what the fight was about and who's fault it is. Don't take sides.
2006-12-02 00:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of your father...
2006-12-02 00:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋