there was a girl he had a fling with at work and after their fling, the girl quit work and then a short time later came back to tell him that she was pregnant with his child, that guy was soo ticked off he PUNCHED the girl in her stomach! i couldn't belive it when i heard it but it's true m how should i act around this guy, he's nice to me, but i dont know..
2006-12-01 16:30:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
He was probably nice to her at one time also until things didn't go the way he wanted. She may have thought he was kinda cute and funny too at one time. Stay away. Don't think this was an isolated act - he will repeat it if things don't go his way.
2006-12-02 12:42:20 · answer #1 · answered by neptune 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider if that poor girl was ur sister...would u still think he was so "cute n funny"? I doubt it. Remember that once he was "nice" to her too! I don't think u hv to give him the cold shoulder since this all happened when u were not there, I'm assuming cuz u said "When I heard about it"... bn a work situation u hv to b professional, but certainly u can/SHOULD keep it only professional. Don't fool urself into thinking ur any better than the other girl, n that he wouldn't do u the same way. He is sick n can not even control his temper in front of all his co-workers. There r plenty other fish in the sea!
2006-12-02 01:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by •♦๑•TxRose•♦๑• 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
better: This guy is a real jerk - BIG time. He sounds like a spoiled brat - a real mommy's boy! He got angry over a girl HE made pregnant and punched her in the baby !!! Treat the guy like he has poison ivy and don't get sucked in to his con lines. If you decide to make it with this guy, expect to be treated nicely at first, then, expect to catch hell from him. He's the office "punch" and every girl in the place should take note. Remember though; you are at your place of employment and he works there too - keep things at a professional level ... and that's it !
2006-12-02 00:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Give him the cold shoulder. That behavior is totally unacceptable. Was he trying to kill his own baby? In the very best light, he's a batterer. He might be nice to you, but he would have done the same to you if it were you instead of this other girl.
How you behave towards him is a statment of how you feel about what he did.
2006-12-02 00:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by KC 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Dont even talk to him. I hope your not niave and stupid enough to think he wouldnt do the same thing to you. Hes a complete reject and if you settle for someone or even be friends with someoen like that then you are in for some nasty suprises in life.
2006-12-02 20:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't get the impression you were considering him as a mate, correct? If he is just a work mate, it is a bit difficult to come out with it now, but I think you should ask him about it, if you feel so uneasy about the situation. You could say something like: Listen, you've always been nict to me, but I have recently heard this story, and it makes me feel uneasy around you. Is it true?
Have you been able to verify that what you heard is actual fact? Probably want to ask aroung first...
2006-12-02 00:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Julia S 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ummmmm................. If this is true he would maybe be facing jail time. And no girl in the right mind would even go near the guy. I am not sure your telling the truth because your actually asking the question.
2006-12-02 00:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding? do you even have to ask? come on really? this guys messed up BAD. do you think thats the 1st time he hit a girl? or better yet do you think it will be the last? he tried to kill a baby! does that put it in clearer perspective? avoid him or you may get him mad enough to sock u!!!!
2006-12-02 00:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by nightyzz 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that is rude and disrespectful...its his own fault if he wants to have sex...he knew what could happen....I wish someone would punch him....stay away from him....you never know if you would be then next one that he is ticked off at.
2006-12-02 00:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by none y 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldnt act any way i think you should be yourself if you dont feel comfortable around him let him know and if you do still feel comfortable around him after knowing that then thats on you. i just dont know if you could trust him with bad news?
2006-12-02 01:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋