My boyfriend is ALWAYS trying to have sex with me! I work almost all day and when I come home I'm pretty damn tired. I'd like to get a good amount of sleep so I'm not cranky and pissy when I go into work the next day. When he sits there and practically begs, I start to get pissed at him. And when I turn him down when he continually asks in one night, he gets that hurt look like I don't care about how he feels or what he wants to do. So of course(because I don't want to make him feel like I don't love him)we ended up having sex anyway. Not that I don't enjoy it when we do, but I'm always so damn tired the next day. What can I do to explain to him that I do love him very much, but he needs to think of how I feel and my needs too?
2006-12-01 16:27:08 · 13 answers · asked by Bri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't he have a job?
2006-12-01 16:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh--that's definitely one thing I don't miss about living with a boyfriend.
Maybe you could sit down (sometime when he's not begging for sex and you're not dead tired), explain your need for sleep, and try to negotiate a compromise of some kind. If you're lucky, he'll a) agree to compromise, and; b) actually live up to his end of the bargain. Otherwise, if your lack of sleep is seriously affecting you, or if he just doesn't seem to give a hoot about your needs, I'd think about getting my own place.
2006-12-01 16:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having sex with him first thing in the morning when you wake up. I had the same problem with a boyfriend of mine, and that begging really gets annoying fast. . . Morning worked great for me because I got my sleep and it jump-started my day-- got the blood flowing and all that. Seriously!
2006-12-01 16:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of that the the two certainly one of you may take a seat down and picture for the sake of your daughter. Your daughter needs the the two certainly one of you. provide your spouse some interest. pay attention to her and comprehend that she is going with the aid of some tough situation. while she used the word "vengeance" it shows that she feels which you have harm her in some way. confer along with her and discover out motives why she is leaving. it must be that the two certainly one of you have some unresolved remember. it may be stable to be friendly to one yet another and not overlook the justifications why the the two certainly one of you're married. while a girl reported that she fell out of love.....it is not in lots of circumstances the case.She could have been protecting an excellent style of harm in her coronary heart. communication is the biggest right here. to your lacking products, that's a demonstration that she choose the attention and is making an attempt her terrific to electrify you so as which you will confer along with her. No quantity of drugs or pills can help your spouse or your marriage. i wish the the two certainly one of you spend some time mutually. you're a stable husband and father.Counseling may be the terrific answer to assessment to love and stay with one yet another. God Bless and take care.
2016-10-04 15:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dealt with guys like that so many times its not funny, and after really searching I found a guy that doesn't make it my responsibility to get him off . But before that I let it be known that sulking and any over all whining would result in less sex than before . You have the leverage , use it .
2006-12-01 16:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO JUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS
BECAUSE THIS WILL CONTINUE TO BE A PROBLEM. BUT
ALSO IS HE WORKING AS WELL. BECAUSE IF HE IS THEN
HE SOUND UNDERSTAND WHAT GOING ON. IF NOT THEN
TIME TO GET SOME SERIOUS TALKING DONE. OR TIME
TO LEAVE HIM ALONG. DONT CONTINUE TO DO THINGS
THAT WILL HURT YOU EMOTIONALLY AND FINANCIALLY
YOU MAY LOSE YOUR JOB. BEING TIRED ALL THE TIME.
2006-12-01 16:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the love sessions are too long. Tell him to get on and get it over with so you can go to sleep.
2006-12-01 16:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I do love him very much, but he needs to think of how I feel and my needs too."
You answered your own question. Do I still get the ten points?
2006-12-01 16:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he luvs you he wont worse you to do anything you dont like or unwillingly. That is the true meaning of Luv. You have to talk to him, communication is key.
2006-12-01 16:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex in the morning!
2006-12-01 16:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by pitman L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up. Why is that so hard? Everyone asks these dumba.ss questions. Just ask him straight up, listen to what he says, and resolve it
2006-12-01 16:31:09 · answer #11 · answered by SpeedySteel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋