My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE HASNT CONTACTD ME SINCE 19DAYS. WILL SUCH A GUY TRY TO CONTACT OR TEXT MESG ME AGAIN
2006-12-01 16:20:14 · 7 answers · asked by ciendriella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look you are not alone I my self dont know what to do about my situation I am going through the exact same thing!But if I could go ahead and give you some advice that I will take in personally ,let time do its job when you least expect it you too will realize that you {we} do not deserve to be mistreaded,phisicly or mentally no matter what kind of life stile we choose to live or we have livedbefore
2006-12-01 16:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to fight back and be strong. If you have done nothing wrong then do not let anyone abuse you.
If I were you I will tell him off. since you are no longer an item, what you do has nothing to do with him. If he call u names, ask him if he is a gentleman and please pick on someone his own size. I think he enjoys making you scared so if you don't stand up for yourself he will continue to abuse you.
If this persist, suggest you made a police report and please keep all sms as prove.
Good Luck and take care
2006-12-01 16:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this cycle continue, hopefully he won't contact you again but if he does you should ignore it. If the abuse persists call the police. But most importantly get some help.
2006-12-01 16:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the cops and get a restraining order he sounds like a freak.
2006-12-01 16:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by heather_766 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes he will contact you again. you need to report him to the cops and you need to save all of those text messages and show them to the cops. but you act like you want him to contact you.
2006-12-01 16:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense but WHAT? this makes no offense. so your sayin he's threating to hurt u through text messages? get your number change and get over it!!!! not to be rude but how old are u 12?
2006-12-01 16:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the cops involved.
Get rid of that guy as soon as possible!!!!!!!!
2006-12-01 16:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋