i have been emotionally hit.
1) i've liked this guy since about a year or so, and of course i told to the person i trust that i like him. but then i found out that one of my once trusted friend start to go everywhere with the guy i like. how could she? everywhere she goes, she'll go with him
2)after that incident, i like another guy, and he's the most gorgeous guy ive ever seen. i told my best friend about that and i found out that she also has a secret crush on him. she told me, in the time when i really fell in love with that guy,that she felt hurt if i tell stories about my good day with my crush. and so i gave her up. i dont want to loose a friend by a guy. i told her that she could like him back if she wants.
3) i feel i cannot believe what am i doing. i let him go for my friend, but i want him back. but i couldnt coz, in one more week, he;s gonna leave to his own country forever. and that really hurts me!!
i hope u guys understand me. my mind isn't clear enough to explain.
2006-12-01 16:16:12 · 7 answers · asked by poe2t_indahouse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should let go of your feelings towards him because as you said, he is leaving..afterall its only a crush right?..there are plenty of guys out there. you should not get your hopes up and be miserable because of what happened.
love gives great joy in our hearts but gives extreme pain too..so don't be too eager to find someone to give love..everybody has time for that ok?..concentrate on other things so you can forget..
hope this can help =)
2006-12-01 16:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by questionable08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY THAT YOU ARE SO DOWN. BUT ONE MISTAKE
YOU ARE MAKING IS TELLING HOW YOU FEEL TO SOMEONE'
ELSE. THAT A BIG MISTAKE. SWEETHEART. YOU KEEP
YOUR FEELING TO YOUR SELF. ABOUT GUYS. YOUR GIRLFRIEND DONT NEED TO KNOW EVERYTHING. BECAUSE THE SECOND YOU TELL THEM OUT THE BLUE
THEY LIKE THE SAME GUY. GET MY DRIFT. SOMETHING
YOU NEED TO KEEP TO YOUR SELF. NEXT TIME. GO
FOR WHAT YOU WANT KEEP IT TO SELF. AND YOU NEVER
TELL ANYONE THEY CAN HAVE SOME ONE THAT YOU LIKE
THAT A NO. NO. TRUST ME THEY WOULD NOT DO THE SAME FOR YOU. BUT THINGS WILL GET BETTER. SO HANG
IN THERE. BUT LEARN FROM THIS. BE CAREFUL WITH
YOUR HEART AND YOUR FRIENDS.
2006-12-02 00:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like ur friend just likes to get people jealous and that should not get u down. If the guy that u like doesn't know u like him, just tell him before he leaves and u well feel better that u did
2006-12-02 00:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by mexico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a chance with him and let him know how you feel. After letting him know, you won't regret the rest of your life that this misery has happened to you!! You cud also move on without feeling regretful. So just go ahead and say it.
What's the worst that cud happen?
2006-12-02 00:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by Pi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go take up a new hobby. It will help take your mind of things and will also give you a new place to meet people you may not have normally met.
2006-12-02 00:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by Steveo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't let anybody. She caused it. You just happen to have similiar tastes in men. There's more fish in the sea, cast your line in again, and don't tell her the next time. Be more agressive and tell them you want to do something with them.
2006-12-02 00:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by serenity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships aren't everything in life. If you're down, there are other reasons. Get some help.
2006-12-02 00:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by bailey88 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋