Why do guys only date girls with good looks?

Question

Guys...don't lie some of you know you do.
why can't some guys just likes girls for who they are?

Answer 1

We Guys are just little Boys, sometimes.

Guys are visual...we see many things, we are also Hunters.

But, one day we mature...some at age 18...some at 25...many at 30. Then we look at the complete person...Intelligence, Morals, values...all of it.

After all....We are Just Men;)

Answer 2

For the same reasons girls only date the jocks or the guys with the really hot looking cars. Oh ! and guys with money. The guy will eventually graduate and no longer be a jock. The muscles will eventually disappear along with the good looks. The car will eventually rust and stop running. And the money will disappear because the guy will have spent it all on the girl with the big t!ts and the superficial looks. So eventually we all become a bunch of middle-aged losers.

Answer 3

It would be a little more fair to say that guys only date girls that they are attracted to.
What is considered "good looks" is very subjective.
I suspect this question has been asked by a person who might consider herself, less than good looking.
There are many guys who like girls "for who they are". But who they are has a lot to do with who they THINK they are.
So if there is a girl who THINKS that she's unattractive then guys are going to see that very quickly, & be turned off by it.
From a guys point of view, there is a lot more to being sexy than natural born good looks.
In todays media there are lots of examples of girls who believed that they were unnatractive, so they lived that way, & quite simply GAVE UP. But when they were given an opourtunity like you see on those make-over type shows on TV, you see lumps of coal transformed into diamonds all of the time.
All most women need to do is put their best effort into themselves, dress right, & take the time to groom themselves, & there will be plenty of guys who will give them attention.
I find that girls with good looks aren't always born that way. They are created with the right clothes & make-up, & the rest is self-confidence, & attitude.

Answer 4

Let's be honest. If yor're trying to decide which of two people to talk to, you're probably gong to pick the one you think looks best. But after you've met someone and talked to them 5 minutes, your like or dislike is most likely based more on how they strike you during that 5 minutes than how they look. If you're more interested in the looks than anything else, there's disappointment lurking around the corner. If you focus on those qualities you have always admired, and choose according to admired qualities, you'll be much better off. So don't worry about how you look. Once you have been met, you will stand or fall on how you present yourself...which includes looks as well as everything else. Remember, looks fade but the other things are there forever.

Answer 5

I believe that if you haven't found a guy that likes you for who you are yet, then obviously they are not worth your thoughts. Take care and remember your beautiful because your you, and I believe everyone has a special someone for them out there that they will find someday if they are open to them. I'm sure he's out there somewhere and when you find him you'll know that he deserves you! Don't listen to the shallow men, (like some on here I read) a lot of them they have just been brainwashed by media, because of mtv and blah blah blah all have "hot" girls in the arms of "successful" men, so they subconciously feel that is the way it is supposed to be. Every guy is different, and I'm sure mr. right is out there! He will stick out so much more than all those crazy immature guys that think they are just "visual" creature. You'll find a smart one, after all you don't want to date a dull dude who is just a "visual" creature do you? Lots of luck I'm in the same situation girl but I have met guys who like me for who I am already and I'm far far from beautiful so... but they think I am. I think everyone has their own perception of beauty, hopefully outside and most importantly inside!

Answer 6

Guys are very visual people....we like beautiful things. That being said, beauty has some very wide ranges for most guys..Its like you girls and your shoes...you want something that looks good. Comfort and what the shoe feels like.. comes second. Something else I should mention...us guys appreciate the effort girls make, to look good. We want our girls smelling good, hair looking good, nice cute clothes..you know the stuff you girls do for us guys...If a girl doesn't even try to represent nicely..it makes us guys feel worthless, like we weren't worth an hour or two of her time. So I guess I'm saying... regardless of what you think of yourself..Try and don't give up..and the most beautiful thing on a girl is her smile...so smile.

Answer 7

Well see, I like a girl who is decently attractive.. I mean decently as in average or good.. Nothing too hot but sorry, nothing like garbage dump moldy bananas ugly..

But it's just hard to find a girl that fits all our personality need, so I guess we rely on looks.. Plus looks are the ones that attract us to a complete stranger at the bar or in school, then when we figure out that they're complete bitches we leave them... It's male nature, since we are very visual creatures..

Hey, if I can find anyone who likes to do what I like to do it would be awsome!.. yet theres no one in my school =/.. Remember kids, looks are secondary but important nonetheless..

Oh yeah, if you eat right and work out like the guy above me said.. You'll look beautiful... If you don't work out right or even eat good, then screw that.. I want to date with an athletic girl who has good personality, intelligence, and living habits, not some slob who all she eats is junk food and gets Ds and Fs..

Answer 8

I'll put it this way, if I can tell that a girl doesn't eat right and workout that much, then I won't like her.

I personally eat really healthy and workout everyday, so I feel that people who don't look great probably don't feel great about themselves. I don't really care if that's a general assumption, but I stick to it b/c its usually true.

Plus if your body doesn't show that you work out and eat right then that also tells us guys that you really don't care enough to give us a good first impression. I know I work hard on it, so why shouldn't you?

That's just my two cents.

Answer 9

Looks are generally the first thing that attracts anyone (yes, even for girls). However, guys are more easily stimulated by the physical appearances than girls. Girls usually go more for the emotional ("romantic") side, while guys tend to get attracted by sight.

However, in the long run, guys will stick to girls whom they feel they can introduce to their parents. They will not hang around with the girls they merely look to for fun. Don't stop being who you are, because eventually guys will want to settle for more than looks alone.

Answer 10

because girls wanna date guys who looks good
girl this is a two way road
would you wanna date a guy who is 300 pounds or somthing
but guys are at fault they have to get the perfect cherrleaders type girlfriends
for the lords sake evrybodycant be slim and have huge boobs
we girls settle for the caring and loving type all need not run after the high school basketball star
but for guys it their own weird ideology