My boyfreind is 21 and i am 17. We been dating only 4 months but we do love each other. Well he has a 3 year old daughter that stays with him and i just move in. The little girl loves me so much. Well he claim that he can't live the rest of his life without me so he got me pregnant. What should I do I love him but I'm too young for a baby? Should i keep it or get an abortion?
2006-12-01 16:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep it! It's not your baby's fault that you're having second thoughts. It's too late for that now, hun.
You should have thought about that before having unprotected sex.
Having said that, yes you still are very young. Babies are not easy, but it's not like you'd be the first person in history to have a child at your age. It'll be tough, but at least you have a boyfriend who says he loves you, who'll be there by your side.
2006-12-01 16:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'd say seeing a counselor would be a very good idea. You are going to change so much in the next 3 to 4 years and having someone who "got you pregnant" on purpose who has a 3 year old daughter and is 4 years older than you is a lot of pressure for a 17 year old. This is not a place for a truly objective answer. You have so much to think about and it would help for you to talk it out with someone who could listen without opinions or personal advice. Although, instead of abortion, maybe your options should be keep or adopt the baby.
2006-12-01 16:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chiky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going with Chicky and Just A Girl here....
you need to talk to someone who can help you make that decision and help afterward as well. Whatever choice you make it will change your life forever. You need someone one to help you make that transition either way.
2006-12-01 16:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by gummybear1772 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oi vey. Go see a counselor. This is too big a decision to make on your own and definitely not a decision to make based on Yahoo questions! Please see a counselor. The decision you make will change your life FOREVER!!!
2006-12-01 16:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too late now you just proved how stupid you are. you will be stupid all of your life so live with it!!
2006-12-01 16:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋