Heres the story(5weeks)...this girl, we always use to go lunch, out to movies, and even the occasional dinner/going out with friends of ours. Everything was really great...she likes to touch me alot, and we always use to laugh....now all thats gone, the past week has been really hard as i dont know what has happened. Her B/f did break up with her, but we use to go on lunches even before that happened. I didnt make the move cause i really didnt want to move too fast for the girl. Im so annoyed at her this past week...she doesnt respond to my txt's, unless its really urgent, and she seems to have gotten real distant from me...i have yet to ask her why, but she works with me, and i dont want to say anything yet...i really like her, and dont know what to do...One thing i noticed though, is shes really nice and laughing to everyone else...but shes now got a awkward feeling towards me everytime im there, as if she doesnt want to talk to me/ignoring me. and then we think girls arent evi
2006-12-01 16:05:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Recently she got really mad at me, and told me to F#ck off, i havent talked to her since, she seems to be frustrated at me only....shes slowly starting to talk again, but i ignore her like nothing else....shes really got me mad this time, i dont know why shes taking it out on me, but i havent talked to her properly since...she asks me if im ok, and if everythings fine...im really serious toned to her now, and havent txtd again, or tried acknowledging her for awhile now...why has things got to this stage anyhow?...Couple of details id like to mention, the girl use to take me to lunch before the breakup, not the other way around, and she'd want me to go do things with her...ie after work have a coffee or something... After the breakup, she wanted me to be the one to confort her, which i done of course, and we started going out even more doing lunches, movies, etc.....even introduced me to a couple of her friends.....i dont know what to do now???......
2006-12-01 16:05:56 · update #1
Hay dude...whats up.....my name is Jeff....I've got two words for ya.....ya ready....listen good...."SIDEDISH" do ya understand what that means.....let me guess...you wear sunglasses at night ...right....cause if you can't see that thats what you are to her.....you must be blind....(no offense)....."My boyfriend pissed me off....I'll teach him"!!......and there you are....."Why dose he keep calling me...my boyfriend is going to find out"!..."I like him...I think he's cute but.....I love my boyfriend"....."I know.....I'll introduce him to some of my friends so he'll stay around....then when my boyfriend pisses me off agian...I'll know where he is...(hehe)....Open your eyes friend....your just an appatizer while see's dinning on the main corse....and when that plate gets cold and the food is'nt tasting right........."Back to the appatizer"....give the fork to someone else....someone who wants you for dinner and not just an appatizer......peace out
2006-12-01 16:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her take the lead and go with it. It could be that the break-up might in some small way been caused by your friendship with her.
Matter of the heart are at times very confusing at best but continue being her friend and she will work herself back to being herself. She might have taken the break-up more seriously than you figure and just wasn't into being your friend at the time, she had all that crap to tolerate. Its obvious that your a man, and when it hit the fan ~~~ all men are dirt, trashie bastrads and your part of the breed. What did you thing your special, when did you last sit to take a leak, hahahah.
Seriously, give her a bit of time, friends are friends and sometimes they need a bit of space.
Good luck, your doing the right thing but give her a smile and at least be friendly even from a distance. Ask her if she is alright or doing better, that your were worried about her or is there anything you might be able to do for her when the time is right.
2006-12-02 00:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by ricardo v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were her girlfriend. her crying shoulder. maybe she just took you to lunch to get the boyfriend jealous and more interested? be a man, take her some place you like, instead of her always taking charge. at least romantically, girls don't like it when they do all the "work" like deciding where to go, what to eat, etc. don't let her drag you around.
2006-12-02 00:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by Nick C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her, be active not reactive. ask her to lunch or an early dinner. it's ok to ask her what's up but don't overwhelm her! she probably is confused right now and if you are her friend, be her friend. if she's not interested in any contact, chalk it up to a life lesson learned
2006-12-02 00:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by slinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you come right out and just asked her what the deal is? You may be surprised by the answer...good luck!
2006-12-02 00:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her B/f did break up with her - mistake number one
and she probably has mixed feelings right now
2006-12-02 00:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by A train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT THINK YOU DID ANY THING WRONG. SHE JUST
SOUND LIKE SOMEONE THAT HAVE SOME ISSUES THAT
SHE NEED TO WORK OUT. I WOULD JUST GIVE HER
THE SPACE THAT SHE NEED.BE THERE FOR HER. BUT
DONT LET HER PLAY WITH YOUR HEAD.. IF IT REALLY
MEANT TO BE IT WILL SO JUST RELAX AND GO WITH
THE FLO.
2006-12-02 00:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋