I haven't ever got close with anyone, perhaps I was too busy with other things in life. Anyways, I came across this woman. We click in so many level, almost unheard of. It literary make those old school romance comes back into life. But one thing about this relationship, that this woman is married to another man. I tried to shake her out of my mind, but it seem that I have long for her, as she has with me. We haven't even have sex yet, but its seem we connected in our core existence.
I tried to shut her out, I didn't want to hurt her in her marriage. I see her more than that. But when we are together, the world seem so much brighter and beautiful.
Its like I want her, but I don't want her to be hurt by leaving her family to be with me.
I want to give up on her, so she can have a peaceful life with her family. but whenever we do met up we would held our hand so close and unbearable to seperate one another.
What advice can you give me?
2006-12-01 16:04:29 · 7 answers · asked by j x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really do care, stay away from her. She is taken and you very well know it. She can't be into you if she is married. You can take the noble road. You'll not have to live with the fact that you helped split a marriage or committed fornication either. It is a bitter pill to swallow-speaking from experience. Put your feelings on hold. If she leaves her husband on her own, you'll have no regrets and a pure heart. You'll be glad you did. Good luck. It isn't always easy to do the right thing.
2006-12-01 16:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by kissgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's been said that timing is everything. It would appear that this relationship did not come together at the right time.
So, you met a soulmate? So, you connected with an individual on so many levels that it is almost unreal? So what?
You can't destroy a whole family just because you're having a cosmic moment.
The timing is all off. You crossed paths at the wrong time.
Accept it and disengage yourself from something that appears to be able to seriously damage a number of lives.
2006-12-01 16:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
j x it is not twisting, it's twisted...but not too late. Here is the dela only you can decide what you want. If you wnat her and live with that guilt go ahead, if not, run away.
If spirituality you value, you would be out of her life like a bullet. Don't waste your time with fantasies, life is far too more serious than that. Life is not a dress rehearsal, iyt's live and some mistakes you do are almost irreversible.
make a wise move buddy
2006-12-01 16:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply answer.Shes married,leave her alone and don't mess up the family.There are to many single woman out there.
2006-12-01 16:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love it set it free ....... Respect the fence "The No Tresspass" sign that the ring is in a marriage.
Move on.... choose well .
2006-12-01 16:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Walk away, its the best thing you can do.
I know its hard at time, but no worries you can do it!
2006-12-03 12:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by jane c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will hurt her evenmore if you don't end this now and yourself sometimes its better to let go.
2006-12-01 16:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by Babycakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋